Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

My ex-wife had an emotional affair at work for the last few months of our marriage. I didn't find out until she told me that she was pregnant with his kid and that it was "above us and beyond our control" as a reason she was leaving me. Then filed for divorce within two days.

Months later she had called me a few times to tell me how great her life is with him and how much happier she is with him then she was with me.

Then she called months after that and told me that she was living back at home and that the "destiny guy" was a bad relationship and they broke up. (by the way she had an abortion with the twin girls, so she could run a marathon or something, which she never did)

Then two weeks after that she calls and tells me that she got back together with that guy. I asked her why that would concern me and she said "it will when she gets married to him"

Now six weeks after that she is trying to talk to me like we are friends and telling me she is moving in with him.

2007-02-17 15:39:42 · 12 answers · asked by Kev 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy just textd me (we both like each other and he asked me out before, but i couldnt go out that day).....and in the text he said that he wanted me to call him because he wanted to talk about "us".......isthat good or bad and plus idont feel like calling him because i wont know what to say and i can barely hear his voice on the phone (i hav bad hearing) lol. i dont wanna hurt his feelings by doing any mistake. what should i do. and what does he mean?

2007-02-17 15:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by BrownieMonster 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:39:04 · 22 answers · asked by ourjacobdavid 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 15:38:42 · 10 answers · asked by jcsas_2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I usually wear what's in style, polos, cute t-shirts, jeans, flats. in the summer i'll wear cute tanks and halters. I guess my style is somewhat preppy.What do you guys like on girl? (and not just miniskrts and slutty clothes)

2007-02-17 15:38:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have sex, why do you do it?

If not, why don't you?

Do the reasons you list line up with your principles?

Is the risk worth the reward?

What are the risks and rewards?

2007-02-17 15:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by theFo0t 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got dumped not only online but on my birthday too,how mean an out of order is that?

2007-02-17 15:35:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

make out or fool around, how long does it go on for? how long should it go on for?

this is a serious question i am wondering. how do i tell my gf that we should do it longer without sounding like a pervert or something? because i know a minute cant be long enough for either

2007-02-17 15:35:29 · 2 answers · asked by edger 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...Well there is this guy that I talked to in May '06 but when summer came around in like July or somewhere around there I stopped calling him(no reason, I just did). Then I didnt see him until in Oct/Nov '06 (he showed up out of nowhere, walked in front of my school when I was waiting for a ride.) and automatically we started dating but only for about a month/month 1/2 because I thought he was a playing me(cheating)...I havent seen him or talked to him since but I think about him all the time...I have his number still....should I call him?
Im really scared of getting hurt by him though....so Im confused.

2007-02-17 15:34:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it bad to umm have sex in ninth grade evn if the bot is really nice and he loves you and you use protection?

2007-02-17 15:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my husband has this pycho cousin who is mentally unstable and is extremely jealous of me so when she sees me she physically attacks me and of course I have to fight back and then when the police arrive I look crazy too.Thing is, when she does this my husband and everyone run away and leave me to defend myself, so we moved away so this would not be a problem anymore and I still run into her from time to time ..at the store etc.What should I do?I don't ever look for trouble and get along well with everyone but I'm very angry my husband runs when this happens and doesn't defend me since this if his family and I think he should take responsibility for the genetics! But I still have to defend myself if someone comes up and sucker punches me...what would you do?

2007-02-17 15:33:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sxoxo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends and i are throwing a huge party in june we need to raise $1000 beforhand how can we raise this much money in 4 months.

2007-02-17 15:32:54 · 2 answers · asked by Sexy Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and will be 15 in a few months(if that helps with the decision). I generally like boys alot but I don't let it affect my work :)
My best friend has an interest in me and I him.But i'mscared to do something because my mom thinks i'm too young. What do ya'll think?




P.S. Thank you :) :) :) :) XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

2007-02-17 15:32:25 · 7 answers · asked by johnsonterrica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Singles & Dating

how do i make them laugh what kind of jokes do i tell gimme examples please i dont knwo how to talk to girls that arent friends

2007-02-17 15:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now and we were really good friends before I asked her out. Ok so the deal is that I feel as if she doesn’t like me as much as I like her. Kind of like she is at the top of my priorities and I’m at the bottom of hers. I’m feeling this because she is always busy and I don't see her as often as I would like and when she has free time she spends it with one of her many friends. Don't get me wrong we do spend time together but we haven done anything (just the two of us) in a while. I don't even think she knows she is upsetting me, completely oblivious. I thought about dumping her because I don't want to love and receive none in return but I really like her and don't want to break up. Maybe you guys have some suggestion?

2007-02-17 15:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by gotansas 3 in Singles & Dating

okay, today is saturday which out of nowhere i found out that i had to go to saturday school(starts 8:00 a.m to 11:00 a.m.). my assistant principle called my dad around 7:00 a.m. while my hole family was asleep. anyways, in saturday school you sit quitely in the classroom doing your makeup work or work that you were supposed to do in class or for homework that you didn't do. there has to be a adult to watch over the students and help them out. the voleyball coach of my school did that. well, she is so hot and lovely. she is a blonde athletic very young beautiful babe. i think i like her. and i mean like her like her. the problem is how do i get her? i am a 12 year old in seventh grade. but i do look 14 or older. everybody and everybody in the world thinks that. and also i have black hair. i got a buzz. i got brown eyes, she got blue eyes. i sag a lot with very baggy pants and big shirts. i don't really match. how can i flert with her.

2007-02-17 15:30:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:30:32 · 4 answers · asked by greygirl06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I get scared if my boyfriend checks my email? I love him so much and I am not use to boyfriends, being so protective or even giving a damn. I don't want to scare him off, cause i close out parts of my life and is sercertive. What shoud i do?

2007-02-17 15:29:42 · 21 answers · asked by haute_coco 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:29:22 · 3 answers · asked by undercovernudist 6 in Singles & Dating

sensitive or sissies? What's your opinion?

2007-02-17 15:29:05 · 3 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy for 2 weeks. i called him everyday over winter break and things were going great.but when we went back 2 skool we never talked. i tried 2 make an effort 2 but it didnt work out. so he broke up with me becuz we didnt talk. after that i couldnt stop thinking about him and now im in love with him. but he only thinks we can be just friends. what do i do?

2007-02-17 15:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for several years now. I've been through those fazes people go through when burned and healing. I've been to therapy, pastorial councilling, Divorce care special weekly group for folks who survived divorce. I have been known as the guy who hates woman but I honestly don't hate them I am "Just VERY cautious!" Some people think I am a forever bachelore! But honestly I am lonely and having someone seems appealing yet MAN do I remember the Pain and suffering, the cost of a relationship here in the good old US of A. I have prayed, received mentorship, read books after book, been to seminars on love, marriage, and even revisited the teenage issues of saving sex for marriage and becomming a secondary virgin and making a commitment to God to save myself for the one He has for me. yet, I even get close and well, I sort of shut down. I see or feel the same mannerisms as my ex exhibted and I shut down! It is no mas! So what would you do in my shoes?

2007-02-17 15:27:07 · 12 answers · asked by John S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont mean to be shallow but I can never tell when a cute guy likes me back yet I can always tell when a not so cute guy likes me. Why is this?

2007-02-17 15:27:04 · 17 answers · asked by princessgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex have a few mutual friends and he acts a little weird when I'm around. I try to have a good time with our friends but he dosn't really get into conversations that I start. And he dosn't really start any conversations when I'm around. He is some what avoiding me and it's a bit annoying. I'll be doing somthing and sometimes look in his direction to notice that he is looking at me which I find odd. For a while I was trying to talk to him and be friendly but it didn't seem to do much good since he didn't seem intrested in talking to me. After we broke up he said we would still be friends but we never really talk anymore. Sometimes he'll say or do somthing funny and I'll laugh and he just looks at me funny. I really want to be his friend since as long as his friends are my friends I can't completly avoid him. Why can't he just act normal around me? It's been a little more then a month and hes the one who didn't want to be with me.

2007-02-17 15:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not a big person on love and dating and all that. Especially because im at an age thats considered to young to know what love is. But last summer i met someone and i cant get him off my mind. he says he feels the same about me to. the problem is we are long distance from eachother. i live in america and he lives in poland and its just so far. we keep in contact my email and phone call but i miss him so much. what should i do?

2007-02-17 15:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by moni hearts 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:26:20 · 7 answers · asked by forallthebeautifulladiesrighther 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 15:25:48 · 3 answers · asked by Lizface 3 in Singles & Dating

Does he like me? He makes fun of me playfully, people thought we made-out (we didn't, we didn't even kiss.), he said something i was doing was sexy, and he's always smiling. He's also very nice, and funny, but he's like that with everyone.
He also let me keep something (long story) but it wasn't very importent. And when he had to go to the bathroom in the woods, he wasn't, like waiting for me to turn myself. (don't worry, I did =) )
And he jokingly said, "Your not my friend anymore." So am I just his friend? I haven't spent that much time with him.. I wasn't even gunna be the first to call us friends. (but we are. definatly at least friends.)
I dunno if he likes me or not. If he does, how do I subtly give him the hint I like him, with out being too easy?

2007-02-17 15:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating