Is it bad to umm have sex in ninth grade evn if the bot is really nice and he loves you and you use protection?
2007-02-17 15:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're this uncomfortable talking about sex anonymously on the internet, then you are not ready for all the things that come with sex. With sex comes the possibility of diseases or pregnancy, along with a whole swarm of emotions that you may not be prepared to deal with. You're what 14 or 15? I've always been really mature for my age and I know I was in no way ready to have sex at that age. Sex will change your relationship, could be for good or bad. Think this decision through, wait untill you are absolutely possible you could deal with any consequences and when you do decide to have sex, use protection and even an oral contraceptive for back-up if you want to be extra safe.
2007-02-17 15:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's bad...because as a 14 yr old you are in no way ready to deal with pregnancy or an STD (and either or both can happen, even when you use protection) and you are not emotionally mature enough for sexual intimacy with someone (when I say "you" I mean anyone your age)...
it doesn't matter how nice someone is, or how sweet, or that you are in love...what matters is if you are both ready to handle ANY consequences of sex...and I think it's a safe bet that neither of you would be.
2007-02-17 23:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex at any age is bad. From personal experience, I've come to know that people around 14-15 don't really understand what true love is, not because they don't experience it, but hormones come in full force at those ages, and they really mess with your brain. At least you used protection. That was a really good decision. Try to get on birth control as soon as you can, but remember to still use protection.
2007-02-17 23:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The #1 advice or answer to this question, is all about protection. I would say there is no right or wrong answer, only you know how you feel. Just ALWAYS use protection, because if you don't, you could contract something, and ruin the rest of your life.
2007-02-17 23:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, off the cuff I'd say you're way too young but . . . I may be old fashioned. I keep meeting people who started about your age.
Anyway, are you in love, or what you believe to be in love? It's important. Physical attraction is only a small aspect of why you want to do this.
Smart to use protection (that's a must).
Either way . . . good luck to you.
2007-02-17 23:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I don't want to be a downer on this subject but I think you both need to slow down gust a bit.Maybe he loves you and he will understand.
2007-02-17 23:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong. my friend was in the same position and she did it. she ended up being with that guy for over a year. just use protection.
2007-02-17 23:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by moni hearts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is starting to become common for kids your age to have sex. I think it is a bit wrong, but it is your decision. Use your judgement.
2007-02-17 23:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine, whyd u wait so long?
2007-02-17 23:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by hot_blonde69ering 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋