Should I get scared if my boyfriend checks my email? I love him so much and I am not use to boyfriends, being so protective or even giving a damn. I don't want to scare him off, cause i close out parts of my life and is sercertive. What shoud i do?
2007-02-17 15:29:42 · 21 answers · asked by haute_coco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay for those of you who don't understand. I don't have a problem with being alone. And I know what love is i am 25. I just wanted know if I should share all my business?
2007-02-17 15:58:16 · update #1
Many men are protective over their girlfriends/wives.... It's pretty normal, but if you are concerned about him being scared off as a result of your secretiveness, speak to your boyfriend about this. Tell him that you are naturally closed and would like to work on this, but that he should be understanding and help you out in this situation.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-17 15:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey in that case you haven't found the right man I bet you and him are Mexican. A real man does not get jealous nor does he not trust you. In fact the right guy will let you be you and if you and let you spread your wings and fly. In that case you will never hide things from him. Trust me you don't love him you just think he is hot and have nailed him so you think you are in love. Ask your self why would you ever hide any think from the person you love, and remember without trust there can be no love or true love. In either case you won't understand any of this so just marry this guy and cheat on him later when you get tried of his jealous ways. I know I got out with lot of girls who have jealous boyfriends and man do I have a good time. They just want sex.
2007-02-17 15:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is insecurity and that is dangerous to have around. Being protective is making sure you are safe not checking on or knowing everyone you talk to or know. Don't confuse love with not wanting to be alone, make sure it is. Love is not questioning your love of someone because love is unconditional.
2007-02-17 15:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous guys are ok to a point.. it can be kinda sweet knowing that they care about you. But when it comes to reading your email it seems more like he doesn't trust you than being jealous. Just tell him you have stuff in there that you would like to keep between you and your friends. Tell him to trust you, that your not cheating on him.. Let him know you care about him too and that it would mean a lot for him to trust you.
2007-02-17 15:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really like to have boyfriends im the type of person that would rather mess around instead so i dont have to deal with the jealousy and all the trouble that comes with having a boyfriend. so im familar with keeping things to myself. its good that your boyfriend cares but try and tell him not to check out everything you do. you're your own person and you need your space.
2007-02-17 15:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by moni hearts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous means lack of trust! There is not a relationship, of any kind, on any level that can exist without trust!
If he does not trust you, you need to move on!
You do not have to prove yourself to any one!
Life requires, virtue, Integrity, ethics, morals and responsibility!
Jealousy is not a part or requirement of any of
these, it is more of a lack of one or all of them.
2007-02-17 15:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime you have to let him know that .You want a boyfriend and not a father.Maybe he will understand a little bit more to life then reality.
2007-02-17 15:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really like him and want him try this....check his email normally a guy who does this is really cheating on you and wants to put the blame on you. If he gets mad or wont let you see it then dump him he is definately a cheater and a liar!
2007-02-17 15:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Joy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he not trust you? Why is he checking your emails? If you prefer that he not check your email, I don't think there is anything wrong with stopping him. If you all have trust issues, I think you should tackle them now, not later.
2007-02-17 15:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His jealousy indicates he does not trust you, is probably a control freak and that's NOT good. Dump him now before he really gets into your life.
2007-02-17 15:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋