My ex-wife had an emotional affair at work for the last few months of our marriage. I didn't find out until she told me that she was pregnant with his kid and that it was "above us and beyond our control" as a reason she was leaving me. Then filed for divorce within two days.
Months later she had called me a few times to tell me how great her life is with him and how much happier she is with him then she was with me.
Then she called months after that and told me that she was living back at home and that the "destiny guy" was a bad relationship and they broke up. (by the way she had an abortion with the twin girls, so she could run a marathon or something, which she never did)
Then two weeks after that she calls and tells me that she got back together with that guy. I asked her why that would concern me and she said "it will when she gets married to him"
Now six weeks after that she is trying to talk to me like we are friends and telling me she is moving in with him.
2007-02-17 15:39:42 · 12 answers · asked by Kev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all for your answers
We do not have any kids but she is paying me a couple small payments for three more months then everything from the divorce is finished.
2007-02-17 16:01:33 · update #1
What a horrible person your ex-wife is.
You should be so glad she's not your wife anymore. and block her phone number in your phones. Don't receive any type of communication from her.
Get her out of your life completely.
2007-02-17 15:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is no real reason that you have to talk to your ex (such as having kids together, splitting up the assests from your marriage, etc.) I would say change your number!! She sounds like she is trying to play you. She wants to keep you on the line in case this thing with her new man doesnt work out, she wants to make sure old reliable you will still be there to take her back.
Move on with your life..there are plenty of good women out there.
2007-02-17 15:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number or don't answer the phone if she rings, let answering machine answer all your call and don't pick up when it's her and don't reply to any messages. Eventually she will ask why you don't contact her, then you can say you are too busy and don't really want to talk to her at all. Tell her you just don't give a continental about her or her life
2007-02-17 15:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was rubbing it in your face.For me the deal would be broken.The next time she called I would be nice and courteous and tell her that you are happy for her and for her to have a nice life because you aren't going to pursue her or the relationship.Maybe she will realize that she screwed up and it's time for her to move along. From the things you wrote in your question it would be good advice to leave her alone anyway.Sounds like she is not thinking clearly and is on a self destructive path.
2007-02-17 16:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you were not separated, your wife would still automatically get the children because the law favours the mother, In most circumstances the wife automatically gets the children unless she can be proved an unfit mother.
2016-05-24 00:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her she's is one hell of a horrible wicked person...how disgusting...i really think ur being good enough to pick up her calls...she just cant screw up lives walk away and just be friends...u dont need any updates on her screwed up life...get on with ur life there are better and more decent women out there
2007-02-17 15:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Meme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does your Heart say?? Personally I do not think that she is for you, and she knows that you will always be there somehow! I would let her Go, it seems like she already moved on!!
2007-02-17 15:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was feeling bad. But I hope youre feeling better.
2007-02-17 16:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by lizziemoffles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids together? if so, then yes you should still talk, if NO then forget her!!! find someone better!! cut her off... completely!!
2007-02-17 15:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
change your phone number. your ex wife does not deserve you:
1. she committed adultery
2. she committed abortion (murder)
2007-02-17 15:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋