Ok...Well there is this guy that I talked to in May '06 but when summer came around in like July or somewhere around there I stopped calling him(no reason, I just did). Then I didnt see him until in Oct/Nov '06 (he showed up out of nowhere, walked in front of my school when I was waiting for a ride.) and automatically we started dating but only for about a month/month 1/2 because I thought he was a playing me(cheating)...I havent seen him or talked to him since but I think about him all the time...I have his number still....should I call him?
Im really scared of getting hurt by him though....so Im confused.
2007-02-17 15:34:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should feel scared and confused. I am.
Why did you stop calling him... Trust your heart dear, there was indeed a reason. Was your better judgement telling you to move on? Did you tell him why you were breaking up with him?
It seems to me that on more than one occasion you have decided it would be in your best interest to not have any contact with this guy. I'm betting that you are picking up on something he is doing that scares you. You are trying to protect your heart and I think that is fantastic! I commend you for this!
It is not uncommon after a break up to feel a void in your life. You spent a lot of time with this guy and now he is gone from your daily life! But, you broke up with him for a reason... Probably because you can't trust him.
Sadly, you have to move on. Erase his number PRONTO!! Let your close friends know that you have moved on and you are not contacting him.. They can be a good support group for you.
Clean Cuts Heal Faster!
2007-02-17 15:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by troyaj1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you only seem to see him on occasion, I would just leave it on a friendly basis. It's obvious that you already try to be with him on two different occasions and it didn't seem to work out for you.If you choice to call him, make it a friendly call, don't expect to much,it never works out when you keep going back and forth with someone,because distance or time never changes some people.
2007-02-17 23:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be dating a LOT of guys and don't give your heart up so easy. If you are dating several guys at the same time, then losing one won't be near as bad as if you were only dating one.
2007-02-17 23:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be in a hurry. dont be.
he may be one of your firsts if not the first (to date and get attracted to) but hey, he need not be the last.
you are still young and you will meet more honest and responsible men.
2007-02-17 23:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him....you only suspected he was cheating. So you could be ruining a good thing
2007-02-17 23:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the only guy you know???
Date alot of guys, ALOT, this guy included.
2007-02-17 23:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call cause like they say ' once a cheater always a cheater'
good luck :)
2007-02-25 23:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by princessvirgo_109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. you need to find some one new. Go now girl, LIVE!
2007-02-17 23:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by r.feickert@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋