Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

even though she told me she's not happy with her current bf? from her blog, friendster, and chats, i can sense that she's actually afraid to be lonely... that's why she's afraid to break up with her bf... how should she break up with him?? is there a way for me to get to her heart afterwards?

2007-02-17 17:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by Ishimaru Kenta 2 in Singles & Dating

Plain and Simple, me and my ex broke up three months ago, she hasn't answered any of my emails, she even told her friends in the chatroom I'm stalking her. On Valentine's Day I sent her Roses and Godiva Chocolates. She didn't respond but she accepted my gifts. I created my own chatroom and on the roster it tells you who was there and at what time they were there. I got to my chatroom yesterday and she had visited my chatroom. This is the third time. WHY IS SHE DOING THIS? Is she playing headgames with me? She doesn't respond to my emails but yet she comes to my damn chatroom knowing I will see her nic name on it. Then she goes into other chats flirting and hitting on everyone. She thinks these three room operators are her buds but they don't even know her. What should I do?

2007-02-17 17:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

all i ever do is sit there, and dont say anything,and when i do, it doesnt last more than a couple exchanges of talking. a couple people start talking, i try to jump in with no clue about the subject, or i know whats going on but dont have much to say, there is just silence from me otherwise. hell, i bring up subjects with normal people i hang out with and it doesn't last more than a couple lines. this is only amplified with the girl i like.

i need to get out a lot more but i was brought up like this. never had siblings so i was always alone in my room. my parents dont help with the fact that to them, vacation time from work is time to stay home and continue working on/in the house or yard. and i dont go places because of that, which means im around people less. which means im socially awkward. (im also only 16 and yes i can drive and go places, i dont like going to someplace alone, and also the way i was brought up was to wait for invites to places, and not just go or invite self)

2007-02-17 17:08:42 · 7 answers · asked by kingfoot7 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 17:08:02 · 41 answers · asked by Katja ie tattybow 1 in Friends

so this boy asked me to go out on a date. and I said yes. Well the more I thought about it I figured it just wasn't a good idea. hes my ex's friend, he's like in love with me and I don't have the same feelings for him and I don't want a boyfriend. I'll be going to college soon and I don't want to be tied down. I know that nothing is going to come from him, and he is also my good friend and I don't want to ruin our friendship, although I may have already. I need help I don't want to loose him as a friend and I don't know what to do, any help would be great!! (our dates this monday) I'm 18 and he is 20.. thanks!

2007-02-17 17:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently got a boyfriend like two days ago and i had never had my first kiss and i actually wasted my first kiss on him and now he dumps me because he says im boring and he just needed a girl for the moment.
i feel used and im a teen btw

2007-02-17 17:06:17 · 27 answers · asked by michelle n 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy i hella like was suppost to go to the movies with me tonight. he was suppost to come to my house at 5 before we went and he never showed or called. i called him but he didnt answer so i just decided to take a friend. should i give him anothr chance and just ignore the fact that he stood me up? or should i move onto another guy?

2007-02-17 17:05:49 · 12 answers · asked by alyssa d 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay. This is going to sound pathetic. I am a 19 year old girl and have never been in a romantic relationship before. Right now I have the chance to be with some one I really really like. I mean really, I got it bad. Any way. I have a hard enough time connecting with people. Trying to connect with some one that I'm romantically interested in is a completely diffferent story. I'm kind of panicking here. This is what I've been waiting for my intire life and I don't know how to handle it. Please some one give me some type of helpful feedback.

2007-02-17 17:05:39 · 5 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

he held a gun 2 my head and brutally raped me...
he has ben doing it since i was 4 im now 16
about 2 weeks ago i found out it wasnt normal
i thort everyone did it since i started at an erly age


dad sed he wood kill mum and me if i told anyone

2007-02-17 17:05:34 · 22 answers · asked by Selina - 1 in Family

There is a guy at school who I like, but I do not know how I can get him to like me. I wrote him a secret admirer note anonymously, and he has no idea it was me. I flirt with him a little bit, but how can I really get him to want to be with me. (14 years)

2007-02-17 17:04:58 · 3 answers · asked by giving. 3 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex because I didn't like how he was ignoring me and neglecting me and telling other girls the same things he told me "you're beautiful.. etc". After we broke up I didnt hear from him but then I started to miss him so I called him asking him if we could talk and try to patch things up cause if we love eachother we should work things out. Ever since then he's just been talking about how I hurt him by breaking up with him and how he doesnt wanna be in a relationship with me anymore. He's become really cold to me and it seems like he doesnt even care. I dont understand how this guy couldve told me he loved me and then now its like I dont exist. What's his problem?

2007-02-17 17:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by allyssa s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 17:04:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause i'm 14 and i'm a guy and i wanna get my tounge pierced. but do you have to get your parents to sign things? or could i use my cousin who's 18 to do that? because i dont want them knowing even though they'll eventually find out. but yeah, i just wanna know if i could get it pierced w/o parents. haha

2007-02-17 17:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by ajd 2 in Family

2007-02-17 17:03:03 · 24 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Singles & Dating

one guy is a grade younger, he's nice and everything but my friends don't like him because he's in a grade younger. he's my same age. he sits my me sometimes and he's cool, but I just don't feel like I like him as a boyfriend type. he really likes me though... the other one is in my grade, but he's a year older. he isn't the kind of guy that I ever pictured myself with, but I still feel that I really like him sometimes. he's nice but he really seems jealous (of the other boy that likes me). he also flirts with a lot of other girls. he asked me to be his girlfriend, but I said no. I honestly always pictured my self with (not to be mean) a smarter person too. I have no clue what to do, one of my friends says stay single, the other says go out with the boy in my grade, but I feel that me and the first guy have more in common (but I don't feel like I want to be bf/gf) It's all crazy, but I thought that maybe getting some opinions from people other than who I already hear from might help.

2007-02-17 17:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by true 1 in Singles & Dating

play hard to get??

2007-02-17 17:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by Dayna 1 in Singles & Dating

I want your opinions!

2007-02-17 17:00:16 · 6 answers · asked by Katja ie tattybow 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends doing to much... were only in 7th grade and i want to tell him 2 stop being so perverted but i dont want to break his heart

2007-02-17 16:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Situation: im 18 and these 2 girls i know from school sit together they're both really hot... but i only like one of them. The one i dont like asked me to lunch in front of the girl i do like... and i said "ill think about it" but finally agreed... next thing i know i was having lunch with BOTH of them... and I said "i want to sit beside (girl i like)" the other one was like "no i want to sit beside her" and pushed me out of the way lol. Whenever the girl i dont like is flirting with me, the one i DO like ALWAYS looks away. everytime. I even tested her on this and it worked. I got alone with her once and i asked her if she wanted to walk with me and she paused and like started touching my sleeve and she's like "let's wait for this other person..." i dono.

2007-02-17 16:59:03 · 3 answers · asked by puathe180man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 16:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by khya 2 in Friends

I have been with my gf for about 3 months. The start of the relationship was really dramatic, as I asked her to break up with her boyfriend of two years to be with me. That was her first relationship and this is mine. Things have been going pretty well since then.
Recently she met her ex-boyfriend to tell him off (she told me first). But then when staying over started crying intensely and after me asking many times what was wrong, she told me it was because of him. But she didn't say she wanted to go back with him, just that she was upset. Things seemed ok after we talked about it a lot. That was the first time I ever saw her cry (she's usually not that kind of type).
That was her first time staying over, and now she says she can't stay over again for awhile because of her parents and is acting cold to me. I love her, I really do, but I worry so much about her feelings she says she loves it when I tell her I love her, but she doesn't always say it back to me. I'm very confused!

2007-02-17 16:57:27 · 16 answers · asked by acural7 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. I moved from out of town and came out of a 5 year relationship I had no intentions on getting in another so quick but it happened now I am still getting use to him and he thinks i be playing games can someone help.

2007-02-17 16:56:40 · 4 answers · asked by choppa g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He doesn't like them because he feels that he is "above" them, but I personally think he is acting like a child. One of my closest friends has cancer and he feels the need to make fun of her for it. I'm I crazy or is this a serious problem? What do I do about it?

2007-02-17 16:56:36 · 30 answers · asked by orchid0923 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 16:56:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u live n richmond n the boy thats fallin n love wit u live n jersey ur cuzin call u and tell u that n u call him and he said its not true

2007-02-17 16:56:22 · 7 answers · asked by tiffany h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 16:55:28 · 14 answers · asked by funnybone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend. I am mad in love with him and he knows it. Since he knows this he likes playing with my emotions. For example he'd tell me he loved me then the next day he just ignores me. Also one day I was on the phone with him and he started talking reall dirty so I sort kinda mabe got reallll horney. Any way he told almost everyone I know about it. Now im called the Human torch and other funny but annoying names. I know i should go find someone else but with love its so hard to just walk away. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-02-17 16:55:26 · 1 answers · asked by DAT CHICK 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 16:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by jasi_dxb 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else?

2007-02-17 16:55:19 · 17 answers · asked by Valarie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always been fairly precocious, and I learned about women and sex far earlier than other guys growing up. The weird thing is, I never had a gf, never had sex, but everyone seems to have this idea about me that I'm... experienced. I'll admit that I never actually TELL ppl that i'm a virgin, but i don't ever proclaim that i've had sex.
hm... i don't know what my question is. :)
any thoughts about anything I wrote?

2007-02-17 16:54:17 · 29 answers · asked by in_my2ndlife 2 in Singles & Dating