i recently got a boyfriend like two days ago and i had never had my first kiss and i actually wasted my first kiss on him and now he dumps me because he says im boring and he just needed a girl for the moment.
i feel used and im a teen btw
2007-02-17 17:06:17 · 27 answers · asked by michelle n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it feels like the end of the world right now i feel stupid dat i wasted my kiss on him when i have been waiting for this moment muh WHOLE life ;-(
2007-02-17 17:33:30 · update #1
sorry you feel bad.
Get a tougher skin though girl,
cause the boy/girl thing....
it can be an emotional roller coaster...
just learn to ride it!
2007-02-17 17:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that - but honestly, first kisses are usually letdowns for most people. So, you're not the only to waste a kiss. As for the boy, he's not even worth your time. But, use this experience as a lesson - be careful about who you date and who you get physical with. There are many boys out there who don't have your best interest at heart. They will try to use you. So, the smarter you are about who you date, the less you will get hurt. I hope you feel better!
2007-02-18 01:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I look at it... You can have many first kisses. The first one really isn't that great anyway. Once you find the right person to kiss, consider THAT your first kiss, because that will always be the kiss you remember first. And sweetie, I'm sure you are not boring! The guy seems like an ****** anyway. I really hope you find someone to share your real first kiss with, and I hope it is amazing. Don't be discouraged, ok?! :)
2007-02-18 01:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by _hopefull_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nHi Michelle, You were used. If he needed a girl for the moment all he wanted to do is get in your pants. Be thankful that he drop you. One thing don't be rush into kissing a guy. TAKE YOUR TIME and wait to see if he will kiss you. Men like to make the first move. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-18 01:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, honey. I'm sorry boys are like that. But when some smooth talker is trying to pressure you for physical affection next time remember this feeling and learn from this experience. All the cliches are true. There are other, better guys and this one isn't worth wasting your time thinking about.
2007-02-18 01:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get upset over a jerk like him.Go out and find yourself a new guy that can see what a wonderful girl you are.Unfortunately you'll meet many like your recent Ex in the world but after so long you'll be able to pick them out and learn to avoid them.Don't let what he did get to you though,it's his loss and one day he'll look back and regret giving up someone like you. Just hold your head high and keep on going...there'll be someone worth your time out there waiting for you. :)
2007-02-18 01:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Liana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well count him out as not really being your first kiss. Wait until you meet that someone special and count that as your first real kiss. Just wipe his old kiss off your lips you don't need his kind anyway. He was a Frog just wait until you meet your Prince.
2007-02-18 01:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfourtunatly, you have been used. as a guy i can honestly say this. Guys are dogs. what you need to do is pick youself up, dust yourself off and walk away from this expierence a little wiser. Not ALL guys are after getting in your pants after dating for a couple days. It sounds like this guy was a jack ***.
2007-02-18 01:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jduck26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing that you only kissed him! Just think if you would have done anything else!
Just think what he would have called you if you did do something else "for the moment"!
2007-02-18 01:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by scorpi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel badly...it happens to everyone. And if you're worried about wasting your first kiss, don't be...in the end, nearly everybody does.
2007-02-18 01:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by scaryopossumkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl learns this sooner or later. Some guys are pigs and not worth your time. You were just unlucky to run across one early. Chalk it up to experience and go about your life.
2007-02-18 01:12:08 · answer #11 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋