I broke up with my ex because I didn't like how he was ignoring me and neglecting me and telling other girls the same things he told me "you're beautiful.. etc". After we broke up I didnt hear from him but then I started to miss him so I called him asking him if we could talk and try to patch things up cause if we love eachother we should work things out. Ever since then he's just been talking about how I hurt him by breaking up with him and how he doesnt wanna be in a relationship with me anymore. He's become really cold to me and it seems like he doesnt even care. I dont understand how this guy couldve told me he loved me and then now its like I dont exist. What's his problem?
2007-02-17 17:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by allyssa s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys very seldom go backwards...even with girls they like. It's obvious (from your own words) that he doesn't like you, much less love you. So why would you even waste your time and his with this?
2007-02-17 17:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesnt care about you anymore..u shouldnt have called him, if he really missed u he would have taken the initiative to call you. If he really still loved you he would have agreed with trying to work things out. I think when he says u hurt him and thats the reason why he doesnt want to get involved its just an excuse for not having to tell u the truth(( he doesnt have those kinds of feelings for u anymore)) dont let him humiliate you like that..i say let him go..like that saying.."let him go, if he comes back he was always yours and if he doesnt he was never yours at all"
2007-02-18 01:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by norma50_pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Problem is You! I think you need to check into a little attitude adjustments. We seem to have ourselves, a slight too high on the Food Chain. No one should be treated above the other. You disrespected Him. and he's right to be hurt. An apology, could help. But the jusrt will still be there.
2007-02-18 01:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the reason why you broke -up with him is because he was neglecting you and flirting with other females ... now your wondering why he's being so cold to you ...hmm ...lets see, first why would you want him back when he was ignoring (thats why you broke-up with him) ... why he's treating you like he is ... cause he can (not to be on his side) but when you break-up with someone.. mean what you say don't go back on your word. cause all you did was play yourself ...
2007-02-18 01:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by common sense 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You questioned his loyalty. You should have talked to him instead of just breaking up that's very immature. What if you were married and you had a disagreement would you just give up. He gave up on you because you gave up on him now he has other prospects and your lonely to bad so sad.
I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear I'm on here to tell the truth.
2007-02-18 01:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may still feel hurt , that the fact that you broke up with him regardless of why you did, and know he may want to hurt you
as well. he may still have feeling for you but cant express them
so he try to shut you out.but just dont let it worry you, when he
ready to talk he will. if it mean for you to get back together you
will.but dont just sit around waiting for him .
2007-02-18 01:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he was really hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or he has already moved on. If he doesn't want to talk and continues to be cold, then more on.
2007-02-18 01:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by ddp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is of habit of flirting young girls & never been sincere to any one. He has understand that you don't like it & feel jealous. So please ignore him and search a good, sincere & dedicated friend instead dreaming him a womanizer.
2007-02-18 01:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has proven ...again...that he is a jerk...how many signs do you need before you realize you did the right thing....time to move on now...good luck
2007-02-18 01:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋