Plain and Simple, me and my ex broke up three months ago, she hasn't answered any of my emails, she even told her friends in the chatroom I'm stalking her. On Valentine's Day I sent her Roses and Godiva Chocolates. She didn't respond but she accepted my gifts. I created my own chatroom and on the roster it tells you who was there and at what time they were there. I got to my chatroom yesterday and she had visited my chatroom. This is the third time. WHY IS SHE DOING THIS? Is she playing headgames with me? She doesn't respond to my emails but yet she comes to my damn chatroom knowing I will see her nic name on it. Then she goes into other chats flirting and hitting on everyone. She thinks these three room operators are her buds but they don't even know her. What should I do?
2007-02-17 17:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Last night she went to my room again at 8:00 pm it said. Now she knows I can see who's been to my room. I know she's not that damn stupid. However, if I email her, she won't respond. Someone told me just to avoid her and not email her or bother with her and she'll come crawling back. They said I should even make up a pretend gf and act all happy in the chatroom and that will surely piss her off. Any suggestions are great. Thanks.
2007-02-20 00:07:09 · update #1
Its a shame that you wasted such a nice valentines gift on such a twit. I would stay away from her. It sounds like headgames to me. If you don't call, email, ask about her, or mention her name see what happens. It sounds like she likes knowing that she still has you hanging on. and does just enough to keep you there!
2007-02-17 17:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you bother with her? She is nothing but trouble for you. She's toying with you. You deserve much better. Watch what happens when you find someone else. She'll come back whining and wanting to slip back into your life. She's a player. I'd run as fast as I could in the opposite direction. Good luck.
2007-02-18 01:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you at least pretend not to like her she will want you more then ever. Women like it when they have control. Don't give up your control ever. If she is ignoring you then move on and that is when she will want you. Try it, close your chat room and don't let her keep track of you like that she knows your there so she flirts. Move on and find a new love and when she sees you have a new love then she will want yo more then ever. Women cant stand when they know that the man is liking them more then your them. i don't know why that happens to a lot of women. Take my advice and don't show her that you like her so much and she will come around
2007-02-18 01:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she is playing headgames with you. She knows you're a soft target. What were you thinking about, sending her roses and chocolates for Valentine's Day? You could have saved your money and just sat outside her house with a big sign saying: "I am a doormat. Please walk all over me."
2007-02-18 01:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're both playing games with each other. Why not simply move on? This has already been going on for 3 months too long.
2007-02-18 02:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been broken up for three months and she is accusing you of stalking and you send her Gifts?
If you lay down in front of the door then you WILL get walked on.
Cut ALL contact and move on.........
2007-02-18 01:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HER, who has times for petty games like she is playing, kick her to the curb and go find one that is a little more grown up.
2007-02-18 01:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her on it and be done with it!
Or better yet find out who her enemy's are and date them!
but don't stop living your life and be happy!
2007-02-18 01:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by T S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she playing games, and you need to move on. she and ex for
a reason.. as long as you allow her to get in your head she
will keep playing you. time to let go once and for all. stop all
the emails etc. cut her loose.
2007-02-18 01:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still cares and wants to see what you are up to....yes she is also playing with your head....not sure why you broke up but you should think twice about any future contact...good luck
2007-02-18 01:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋