Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

i've been kind of seeing this guy. weve been just friends but we got really close to each other. he would stay over some night and we would be intimate with each other. he told me he liked me "a little bit" and i told him i liked him as well. last night, he told he was sorry for being afraid. and i knew what he meant, he was talking about not being able to be honest with his emtions and then he said that he dosen't want a relationship he appoglogized and ask me how i felt. and i told him the truth, and said i am hurt. and i don't think i can be your friend right now. i need to detach myself from you for a little bit. i cant just go on like nothing happend ill just end up getting hurt, because i know he would like to do everything he's doing with me just without the title, anyways my question is. right before i hung up. and said good bye. he got mad and said to me i thought you were different than other guys you can't be my friend you can't wait? what dose he mean by that?

2007-02-15 09:49:22 · 1 answers · asked by темная фея сука 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old and have been married twice already first hubby i met while in college at a club where he was an ultimate fighter.I fell head over feel and eloped with him after 3 months.Problems were numerous to say the least he had never graduated from highschool and he was participating in illegal fights to make ends meet.My parent continued to pay for my college tuition but cut off all ties with me and when i graduated college i was 3 months pregnant.He became violent and in a fight with me over money broke my jaw.I divorced him and married my divorce lawyer who i thought i was in love with that marriage lasted only a year an half before i found out he was a womanizer and a con-man. It's been a year and i am now seeing a great guy my mom set me up with.But i am scared no longer want to be toughed and having issues with trust?

2007-02-15 09:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by Mercedes C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to know if he should be the ring bearer or stand up with me during the ceremony. Thanks!

2007-02-15 09:49:17 · 9 answers · asked by Kenny 1 in Weddings

My husband is an alcoholic. he has admitted to using a prostitute twice and this week has told me he has been chatting to an ex on the phone every friday for two years. he says there is nothing going on. I want him to admit that he wouldnt accept it from me ie. it's wrong, but he just screams that i won't let it go???? help! advice?

2007-02-15 09:49:12 · 27 answers · asked by saddo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl that is like my bff, well she lied to me twice (1 saying she lost her viginity the other saying she broke up w/ her boyfriend) well after she told me that they broke up, she told me she liked me (i told her i liked her) now shes treating me like crap, lying, and saying that should woudl date me (yet she won't). and i was wondering if i should remain her friend, (this is not the first time she's lied to me about something like that)or tell her it's to much??

2007-02-15 09:49:07 · 10 answers · asked by Angelically Evil 3 in Friends

I met a guy from chat room. he showed that he was interested in me before we met, even when the time finally we met in person. he said we should go out again and told me to call him. i was hoping that he would call me, but he never did. although he still shows up in the chat room. so at the end i called him, and he sounded normal and still said we should meet up again. actually i like him, but i also shy to call him all the time while he never calls me. does he actually like me at all? what should i do?

2007-02-15 09:49:06 · 7 answers · asked by shygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 09:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by dallin_gaudette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom needs help. She is a drug addict and about to have no-where to live. I want to help her, but I have my own family that I need to put first. I am pregnant & married with 1 daughter already. I do not want the negative influences in my life that a drug addict carries witht them. Especially a meth-addict. The paranoia, the conspiracies, the sneaking around, lying & stealing stuff. It is so very hard to see your own mother in such a horrible situation with no-one to support her. ANY ADVICE????????

2007-02-15 09:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by sj_melissa 1 in Family

i dont know how to use the stove! i need serious help.. something easy that tastes good??? please help me!!!

2007-02-15 09:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by girl_next_door_red 3 in Singles & Dating

i know that a body is important but its not the only thing. MY body attracks many guys and so does my personality. but it is hard for me to tell when its for my dody or me.A guy i like,likes me to but he always stares at my *** and hes not a virgin i think he expects more from me even though im not going to do anything.i have known him for a while so i guess he would of asked me out along time ago if it was my body.idk but he is going to ask me out tomorrow and i dont know if he likes me or my body.HElp me pleaz.

2007-02-15 09:47:36 · 1 answers · asked by nala0102 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They tell their girlfriends the sweetest things in the world and sound so sincere, then behind the girl's back, they tell their friends all the physical things they did with the girl, as if that's what really matters.

Do the boys really mean what they say, or they just want to sound good in front of their friends?

2007-02-15 09:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by sherry312 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 09:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 09:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we started going out on monday and he didn't get me anything for valentine's day, and he didn't talk to me at all today....what should I do? I need YOUR help!

2007-02-15 09:46:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this ex girl friend that we were in love and whatever she broke up with me 2 times and i broke up with her the last time but now i cant get her out of my mind... help anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-15 09:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by Wacko 2 in Singles & Dating

My roommate and I don't get along. She's needy, overly-talkative, and doesn't think before she speaks or acts. Whenever I let it go, she does something else stupid. One day, we were talking about it and she says that my problem is that I expect everyone to know what they should and shouldn't say. Obviously, not everyone says the right thing but I do feel that there are a bunch of things that you just KNOW not to say. Now, I am starting to think what she said holds some truth.

Over winter break, I decided to get some state ID. Instead of just getting a regular ID, I decided to study the driver's manual and get a permit. When I returned to school, I told her. She said ,"You didn't have a license?" I replied, "No, I am 18, from NYC, there's a subway on every block, there's a bunch of traffic and car insurance for me would be ridiculous." (She knows that my family has no money.)

What's her response?

2007-02-15 09:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by deeplydemented 2 in Friends

What would cause you not to be able to perform at the last minute. Like you get all worked up and all, but dooown it goes! Last guy told me it has been 4 months since he last did it......I guess it has something to do with it. So....share the knowledge.

2007-02-15 09:45:35 · 10 answers · asked by ?Jaileen? 4 in Singles & Dating

we are in an early relationship, only about a week old. We have been on two dates and I thnk it is going to be a wonderfull relationship. But the problem is we just cant talk. I mean we can talk about our feelings, we have done that, but I mean we just cant talk casuialy. We get in to an awkword scilence and our conversations only last 5 min. We just run out of things to talk about. Any body have any idea how we can fix this?

2007-02-15 09:45:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 09:45:06 · 21 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family

I like this guy brandon but he has blown me off like 4 times first time it was he asked me to go with him to a homecoming game and then turned out to go with another girl- another incident was he asked me to a movie and then showed up a hour late- then another was we went to a water park together and kinda wouldnt hang out with me he would just walk off and he ran into a bunch of his friends and ditched me so i ended up hanging out with his little sisters all night....

but the thing is when we talk on the phone or through emails he is so confident and seams like nothing is gonna stop him to hang out with me and he is just majorly over confident (dont get me wrong i like that cause im way way way confident in myself) but then when he gets around me everything changes he stutters and walks away from me and just cant talk straight and gets super quiet.

my major thing is that i dont usually wait for anyone but this guy has always caught my attention...what should i do??

2007-02-15 09:45:02 · 7 answers · asked by Vienna 1 in Singles & Dating

have a friend whom is like my big sister and she intoduced me to a guy...... well kno her dad thinks im a bad influence to her because i asked her to ask my boyfriend something....... Now I have to choose ........ I really love this guy and dont know what to do should I say we dont go out no more as a cover up to lie to her parents or should I really break up with him?

2007-02-15 09:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anjie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thers a guy a lik but i dont know how to approach him.

2007-02-15 09:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by QueenB 1 in Singles & Dating

that life is just one big game?

2007-02-15 09:44:52 · 2 answers · asked by sexymamm2be 1 in Singles & Dating

I've run into a lot of guys that are interested in me - and I always discourage them because of my "condition". But sometimes I wonder - could it be that someone would like me enough to give it a try? So I've been thinking about interacting more but telling before things progress to far. When, how?

2007-02-15 09:44:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know but it keeps getting bigger and bigger and is swelling. What should I do??

2007-02-15 09:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I make more money then she does so when we go out I ended up paying for more things then she does....I usually let it go but I feel I'm being taken advantage of

2007-02-15 09:44:11 · 5 answers · asked by Simone 1 in Singles & Dating

and my friend that he was gonna "take care of" this other boy in my school. he thought he was bothering my friend and my friend told him not to hurt the kid and she didnt care and stuff, but then the boy took out his knife and told us what he was gonna do so we told our other friend and he some teachers.

i got called down to the office to answer some questions. and so did my friend, the boy who was threatened, and the boy who told the teachers.

the kid with the knife got the knife taken and had to leave school.
the police talked to the friend who was with me at school.

later that day my friends parents got a call saying the police will be over tonight to ask more questions.
do you think theyre coming to my house too?

i was there too but havent been questioned by the police yet. it seems theyre only really questioning my friend, i just want to know if i should be expecting the police tonight or not.

2007-02-15 09:43:10 · 20 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Friends

I can't name how many times ive seen girls mess around with other guys while their dating someone and her freinds find it perfectly fine. While guys will look and admire other women they rarely cheat, when a guy goes hell yeah id beat it doesnt mean he would. When a girl says that,well she normally does beat.

Why are girls always unsatisified and have to find that "better man"

2007-02-15 09:43:05 · 11 answers · asked by myballs!!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and this is my first date ever !
I don't want to seem like I am trying to hard,
I am not sure what to expect, any advice ?

2007-02-15 09:42:58 · 5 answers · asked by Alley 9 2 in Singles & Dating

We are on a tight budget, but we think this sounds cool-
Everything from this point will be paid for by the bride and groom.
We will marry at the Little Chapel of the Flowers at 3:30 p.m. in May. After the wedding, everyone go to a buffet-one on the strip within walking distance from the Chapel. After the buffet, everyone come to our hotel suite at the Stratosphere (again, within a short walking distance) for cake and a champaigne toast.

My maid of honor will pass along the word that if people want to go along with the bride and groom and all in the wedding party they are welcome-if they pay their own way- to The Top of the Stratoshere Hotel Lounge and watch the sunset at 7:40. After this, we will all go to the dance club called Polly Esters (in the Stratosphere).

2007-02-15 09:42:42 · 9 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings