Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

Okay, I like a guy who would seriously harass me almost with his constant saying of hi everytime I walked by, he also told me I was cool and funny and the best and he always looks at me.
So I facebook friended him, we left one or two comments on eachother's walls and I imed him once or twice out of the blue. Which is a stalkerish thing to do but yeah it's what I do.
Since then, he hasn't said hi to me in person (I didn't say hi either, oh but he looks at me) , but there's excuses like we had a short schedule and a test and he wasn't here today.
But... well I really like him for some reason, and I'm worried that my being too forward messed it up. However, with winter break next week and no more classes with him, I'd love to be forward again and im and schedule something. So yes... forward? Not forward? I haven't had a short im with him since Monday (we've had three) Ugh, a hopeless crush I know. But I'm worried I ruined it, that's all. Did I?

2007-02-15 11:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 11:16:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Wife a couple of months ago went out with some of her female friends to Ann Summers party......well the other day i was looking for something in our bedroom cupboard when i came across a box containing what i can only descibe as a number of well used strap-ons and other things(not in their wrappers or boxes,and not smelling fresh and plasticty if you can understand).
Thinking on it now one of her best friends seems always to be around when i get home from work...when i chat to her (the friend that is),she seems to go all sheepish and coy.
How can i approuch my wife on this subject,the more i think about it i feel i`m being paranoid,its starting to eat into me,i love her dearly but i find it hard to brouch the subject.....i know we have haven`t made love for abit now as she says is always tired

2007-02-15 11:16:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance was late coming home tonight for dinner, and I was a little upset. Are my expectations unrealistic to think that it would really help for him to call me from the office and tell me when he will arrive home? Luckily I was going out the door to the gym when he arrived home, so I blew off a little steam working out, but I do not want this to happen again. What do you think?

2007-02-15 11:16:00 · 17 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-02-15 11:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Roses are red. Violets are blue. I will have more good times. Without you. I (my name) is breaking off my relationship with(fill in blank). I don't wish to offend, but my reputation I have to defend. Please acknowledge and sign here.

2007-02-15 11:15:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no nasty porno comments please.

thanks, oxox.

2007-02-15 11:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I remember when I was in elementary school (not too long ago, about 8 years ago) no one "dated" and had boyfriends and girlfriends. My little brother is in 5th grade and his classmats all have "bfs and gfs". I find that kind of weird. What has the world gotten into?

2007-02-15 11:14:22 · 32 answers · asked by Simply Me 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, why make a rule that is so contrary to a man's instinct.

That is like putting a giant red button in front of a kid and then telling him not to push it.

2007-02-15 11:14:12 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How long does a guy have a crush on a girl before either loses interest or has the courage to ask her out?

2007-02-15 11:14:06 · 2 answers · asked by Friend 2 in Singles & Dating

I adore and love a guy in my class, he's my friend.
But now he's going out with this 3 years younger girl, she only on 6ht grade!. She says she loves him, but she dosen't even know what love is!, she has known him 4 very little time.
He has a crush on her.
And recently he has been kinda mean to me, he's avoiding me a little and I don't even know why!.
I know he sounds bad, but he's really not. He's very intelligent and deep hearted.

SHOULD I B HERE 4 HIM TILL THE END AND HOPE HE ENDS UP LOVING ME SOMETIME, OR JUST FORGET HIM?

thanks, oxox.

p.s. He's perfect to my eyes, and my friends say he's my soulmate and that we DO go perfect together, and my friends always tell me the truth about what they think, good or bad. They say someday somehow he'll see I'm the only one who really LOVES him as he is and cares 4 him, and that he'll realize it's me the one he loves. DO U THINK SO TOO OR NOT? WHAT SHOULD I DO?.

2007-02-15 11:13:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok Im a 13 year old girl and an only child......i wish i had an older brother.....so when ever im around older guys i get clingy and i bother them.....and i love when they play around and pretend to beat me up.....is this weird?

2007-02-15 11:13:16 · 2 answers · asked by hearts_and_swirls_518 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean she sleeps like a bear in bed, so i have been seeing my next door neighbor at 3 am on the pool deck. Should i have posted this under pools/and decks?

2007-02-15 11:12:10 · 13 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 6 months, and im 15 and hes 16, we are both virgins and i know that he wants to have s.e.x. cuz the comment he said to my friend today, and she told me about it, but he seems to think that i am scared to have s.e.x. i mean im a lil scared, but not like he seems to think, and i am a lil nervous, i mean he can't lie to me and tell me that he's not just a lil bit nervous, i mean everyone usually is b4 they loose their v-card right?! but i dont know if i should have s.e.x. w/ him or not! i mean i think im ready, well im begining to believe that i am ready, but i kinda feel like if i dont have s.e.x. w/ him sometime soon, then its gonna be over, and he's my FIRST LOVE AND I LOVE HIM MORE THAN NETHING AND NEONE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD!!! and i DON'T wanna loose him over something stupid like this!!!!! so should i go ahead and talk to him about having s.e.x. and just go ahead and do it, or not?!

2007-02-15 11:12:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 11:11:45 · 3 answers · asked by el 1 in Singles & Dating

any creative ideas???? creativity counts

2007-02-15 11:11:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf of 30 and myself 26 got into our 1st fight last weekend. We have been dating seriously for 7 mos. He and I only see each other on weekends b/c he works 2 jobs and lives an hr. away. He always used to call me everynite for the most part and initiate emails 2 me everyday at work. The day after our fight he told me he wanted to spend the day alone. I respected that and sincerely apologized for what I knew I did wrong. We have talked on the phone and have had normal conversations since then & haven't brought up the fight again. The only difference and what is bothering me is that I feel he is playing games with me now. He has not initiated any emails to me this week or phone calls. I have been the one calling him & emailing him. He did send me flowers on V-day. He has not asked me if I wanna do anything this weekend yet & I don't wanna ask him cause last weekend he said he needed space. Why is he not calling me and emailing me like he used to? Is he insecure? I am so worried.

2007-02-15 11:11:09 · 5 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a little shortsighted (kurzsichtig) . Am I superficial?

2007-02-15 11:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm stumped on how to incorporate the guys outfits??? Can you guys please help me?????

2007-02-15 11:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Krista E 1 in Weddings

there is a girl i like but im not sure if she likes me back is there a good way to tell?any help would be great!

2007-02-15 11:10:44 · 4 answers · asked by seanzin 2 in Singles & Dating

tried the subtle approach and then finally decided to just be straight-forward. Neither worked.

2007-02-15 11:10:40 · 3 answers · asked by ihateidiots 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i think this guy likes and i am not allowed to date and i don't know wat to do help

2007-02-15 11:09:55 · 13 answers · asked by reen 1 in Friends

Thank you!

2007-02-15 11:09:04 · 19 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been together almost 10 months,and has never mistreated me,although he is known for having a bad temper.basically,he really dislikes my guy friend because he suspects he is trying to take me away,and admitted he feels jealous.I hadnt seen my guy friend in months,so asked my bf if he would mind us seeing him for a few hours seeing as i see my bf all the time.But he went behind my back and got our friend to invite him my guy friend out so he didnt come to see me.This really upset me,i was crying,and i told my bf i didnt want to see him that night because of it.The next night he swore and shouted at me.He admitted he felt angry because i had been upset so couldnt go to see him!?He then cut himself with a penknife for hurting me!And then cried in school in front of our friends.He is a really nice guy,and has never acted like this towards me,but i feel guilty somehow,i just want him to get help,and its depressing me.Is he abusing me in any way?what should i do?

2007-02-15 11:08:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm never satisfied with what I have. People have told me to feel confident of how lucky I am & what position I'm in. Still, I find no joys & always looking for a way out to live better but it's never seemed to be enough for me. How can I stop this thought & accept my life the way it is?
Thanks

2007-02-15 11:08:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example, a 14 year old always liking guys that are 17-19

2007-02-15 11:08:13 · 5 answers · asked by lia 1 in Singles & Dating

well i asked a girl on valentines and she said no . what should i do . please help me

2007-02-15 11:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by MC chris 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else face this vicious cycle: you have a friend who you don't see often and haven't contacted in months now and you want call her, but you feel guilty for not having spoken for so long and you keep putting it off and putting it off until it just becomes awkward to ever call?

2007-02-15 11:06:56 · 15 answers · asked by mels211 1 in Friends

Would you reply to an ex's text message wishing you a happy valentines day. We have been off and on for the last 2 years. She moved away, stating that it wouldnt work, but then later wanted it to. I closed it off cause I had a lack of trust for her, and didn't want to prolong my pain by finding out that she did something with some yoke where she lives. When I asked where her heart was she said she didn't know. Called me one night drunk to try nad make me jealous then I text her the next day and she doesn't reply till yesterday with that message. I just don't know if I should reply and if so wat should I say.

2007-02-15 11:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by Mike Hunt 2 in Singles & Dating

I proposed to a woman I truly loved last month, but she rejected the proposal. I am devastated, but most of all I would like to let go now. Only she says she still has feelings for me and wants to be friends. She calls me 2x times a week and emails me at work. Her tone is always light and cheerful, she doesn't realize that each time she calls or emails my pain gets worse. Why do ex-girlfriends insist on calling and staying friends. Whats in it for them, I really like to know.

2007-02-15 11:05:08 · 26 answers · asked by tenno1234 4 in Singles & Dating