Would you reply to an ex's text message wishing you a happy valentines day. We have been off and on for the last 2 years. She moved away, stating that it wouldnt work, but then later wanted it to. I closed it off cause I had a lack of trust for her, and didn't want to prolong my pain by finding out that she did something with some yoke where she lives. When I asked where her heart was she said she didn't know. Called me one night drunk to try nad make me jealous then I text her the next day and she doesn't reply till yesterday with that message. I just don't know if I should reply and if so wat should I say.
2007-02-15 11:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by Mike Hunt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
reply if you both are still friendz?
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2007-02-15 11:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds as if she is really confused and sending out all sorts of mixed messages!
How do you feel about her? Is she someone you'd want to be friends with (could you trust her that far?)?
Just because someone sends you a text doesn't mean that you have to answer it. But if you can still find some redeeming qualities about her-- in other words, if you intend to have any sort of relationship (even the most platonic) with her, then go ahead and text back . You could thank her for the thought and add you hope(d) she had a Happy Valentine's Day too.
Good luck! (But be careful about getting sucked back into something you really don't want!)
2007-02-15 11:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wish her the same and politely ask how she is. Don't use the word love or any x x x. Try and keep it sort of businesslike and listen to what she has to say. I knew someone in UK who phoned her ex up wanting to get back with him. He gave her a mouthfull and said he had someone else so she just said okay sorry to bother you I was going to tell you I had won half a million pounds on the lottery!! She did not hearfrom him again. Just sit and listen she may have nothing else to say at all.
2007-02-15 11:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not reply!! she is playing head games with you... you just wants you to be there when she wants you. and yes chances are there is another guy too. find someone else. someone good and honest. you sound like a good guy and deserve a real girl that you can trust. do not answer her calls or text messages. let her take the hint your over her. even if your arent. good luck darl. keep your chin up!
2007-02-15 11:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well so you don;t sound like the confused one.... you can start bye saying...."Thankx" and just leave it at that...this way it wont look like you were desperate...and it's almost guarantee that she will reply starting a convo with you....take things slow with it and follow your heart because if you don't trust some one its usually for a pretty good reason....
Good luck
Hope this helped...
2007-02-15 11:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont have a relationship with someone else at the time....it would be safe to.............................................................................
i think that you caould as long as it is just happy valentines day to you too!
just keep it simple and far away from sotheing you would say to your girlfriend.........unless you want to get into that roller coaster of a relationship again....................................................................
what to say: thanx, have a happy V-day 2
that is all......you have to admit, that was pretty easy!
2007-02-15 11:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont reply
2007-02-15 11:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her.
2007-02-15 11:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONCE A EX, ALWAYS AN EX!!!!!!
2007-02-15 12:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say thanks
2007-02-15 11:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by angelbrat462901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋