If all a man wants is sex with different people, what is the point of marriage?

Question

I mean, why make a rule that is so contrary to a man's instinct.

That is like putting a giant red button in front of a kid and then telling him not to push it.

Answer 1

This made me laugh so hard! It is kinda right, but realize that not every man wants sex with different people. Oh, they may fantasize and lust after others, but not every man will go through with the affair. When you find a man like this, THEN marry him.

I feel that it´s a boy who has an affair, but a real man will not.

Answer 2

What you're talking about is the difference between humans continuing as a species and the evolution of society.

Lets face it, the whole deal with life is to procreate and create more of your species so they can keep going...not just in people, but animals and everything. So instinct is to have sex with many different partners so the that the species still survives.

BUT, society says that it's wrong to do this...and that people must try and be monogamous.

Having said all that I think you should try not to be so generalised. Not all men want sex with different people and women do the same thing as well. There is just as much instinct for a female to find the strongest male in her species and try to procreate with them to further her own biological future.

Answer 3

Well, if this hypothetical man is you, then there's no point in getting married. Sleep around. And wear protection.

The only people who SHOULD consider marriage are those that are emotionally mature enough to live with another person; people who understand the meaning of teamwork, compromise, sympathy and forgiveness.

If it's your belief that men are by nature promiscuous, then I would suggest you steer away from marriage.

Answer 4

Children.

MAN does not want sex from different people boys do and boys shouldn't be allowed to have sex with anyone because then we end up with children that have boys for father's instead of a MAN.

You have an instinct to go potty, I mean do you go to the bathroom or just let loose in your pants like a little boy. Same goes for sex fool.

Answer 5

My husband only wants and only desires sex with me. A man does not want to have sex with different people, mine always tells me that i am the best so why go elsewhere, that is what your guy or anyones should believe and tell you. Sex is emotional and not just physical.

Answer 6

Exactly, I think marriage is a state of mind. If you know for a fact that you can't be faithful to one person don't get married and for that matter don't even pretend to have a serious relationship with them. Maybe if you just told them that you want only sex you wouldn't get too far, huh? Just stay single and don't fool yourself or anyone else, no one sticks a gun to your head and makes you get married.

Answer 7

1. Not all men are cheaters.
2. Don't marry unless you are sure that you love that person.
3. If you find yourself attracted to another woman while you are married, tell your wife, most likley she will gladly divorce you cause shes sick of your *** too.
4. WILL POWER! some people have it and some don't

Answer 8

If that is indeed all a man wants, then he should circulate with women who feel the same way - it is a loveless, barren existence, but like any underworld, there are people living there.

Answer 9

Because we as humans are not animals and we were given morals as well as will be judged upon our moral conduct. Just because you want something doesnt mean it is okay.

The only reason things have gotten as bad as they have is because we have decided that God doesnt matter or we can forget about him and we have also lost our willingness to view anything as being wrong or immoral. We have decided that our wants and what we can justify to ourselves is what counts and what matters.

Answer 10

most men mature when then grow older, and thats how they know they are ready to be married- if you put a button in fromt of grown man and told him not to push it- he would just walk away- but for now.....