Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

My wife's niece spends a lot of time on the phone, we live in a difrent state and mi wife, like any other family member, likes to call her sisters and catch up on things.
when my wife's niece answer the phone she always tells my wife to call back later or that her mom will call her back later but it never happens. my wife is upset but doesn't dare to bring it up, me personally can't say much since im an outsider but it does bother me that some of her family don't bother to realize what's really going on plus it is disrespectful to my wife. my wife always calls her family but they never call her back and she's afraid to bring it up because they would get upset. am i wrong for telling my wife she should bring it up hard and strong since this been happening for a while now ??

2007-02-12 13:28:15 · 12 answers · asked by CG 1 in Family

Im married and my husband is very rasist .Ive asked him about having an orgy.Hes up for having this ,but only with women or white men.But my fantasy is with these 2 black men I work with that are bag boys at our local downtown grocery store.How should i go about fullfilling my exotic fantasy ?

2007-02-12 13:27:48 · 25 answers · asked by hot chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i thought he liked me but he doesn't talk to me that much anymore!!! I figured out from his lil sis that he likes a girl named courtney! It hurts to think he likes another girl but i always act like i don't care but i don't say it i just act all happy and stuff around him but when i get home i kinda cry and well i acted that i liked a guy named Trevor on the football team only because people were thinking i was liking him! Should i just get him something and go up to him and say "here i got you something for valentines day" or should i just do something else because i really like this guy and i tended to like him more when he told me a big secret that proved that he really trusted me and thinks of me as a really good friend. Please tell me what i should do!!!

2007-02-12 13:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

The father of my two kids has not paid child support in a very long time. I recently came across a credit card of his, should I use this to buy the kids some presents for their upcoming birthday?

2007-02-12 13:27:20 · 16 answers · asked by mom2twins 2 in Family

2007-02-12 13:26:29 · 13 answers · asked by d1nonlidx2 2 in Family

i like this girl who used to like me. but ever since i called her and her dad saw the id and she got in trouble shes stopped liking me. i thought i could move on. then i saw her again. (we hardly see each other) i tryed to avoid her cuz i just didnt want to get in her way. i assumed that she would feel uncomfortable around me. but man i realized that i wouldnt be moving on any time soon. people think i did(including her). but i havent. ive looked for other girls but none make me feel the way she does. its been 8 months since i started liking her. i thought the way i liked her would just be a stage. but everyone time i see her i know that its going to last. ive decided to still like her but i wont try to get her back. im happy if she's happy. seeing her smile and face and hearing her laugh is better than being with some other girl. i know she wont be happy with me. am i doing the right thing? or am i just being stupid?

2007-02-12 13:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by pnoybaler 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are very much in love now. he is the sweetest!
in our past however, he USED me to cheat on his ex once. i never told her about it, but she dumped him bc he was mean to her (they lasted 1 month).afterwards, he was interested in another girl but stopped seeing her to ask me out instead.
^The above^ all happened after he and i dated for 2 yrs and he mentioned marriage (told everyone i was The One), but i wasn't ready and refused to see him for 5 months. he had moved on with that first girl i mentioned after i dumped him. he's not the cheating kind, so he and i were both surprised to find that he cheated on his ex that time. we have this unbreakable bond, but i just cannot get the past out of my head: that incident when he USED me to cheat on his ex! he says he doesn't know what he was thinking, but i can't forget it!!!
i really do love him so much though.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? i know i haven't been perfect in the past but what he did totally tops what i did.
opinions??

2007-02-12 13:25:33 · 5 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously think about this, dont just put down what quickly comes to your head, like funny or watever

2007-02-12 13:25:18 · 25 answers · asked by Realist 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Radz Surio 1 in Singles & Dating

im in a group of friends whom NONE is single! they're the kind who are all over each other...what should be a nice excuse not to go with what they call "group date" (yeah right!)...?

2007-02-12 13:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has decided that since he's almost 20, I can't tell him what to do or anything. However, he sitll lives at home, is in the middle of a custody battle with his 19 year old ex girlfriend - my grandson is 16 months old. They have 50/50 custody now. My son LIES the worst in the world to me. I told him to pick his friends or his family (he & I live alone but I have a large family around). He told me he would not see this one particular person any longer but I find out he did the next day. He's been out of a job for 3 weeks and still hasn't found one.

When he is to be out looking for a job (and he swears he is) I find out he's running with bad influences.

I took the house keys away from him & told him to find another place to live if he couldn't live by my rules but he makes me feel guilty. What do I do?

2007-02-12 13:23:49 · 18 answers · asked by staci1965 1 in Family

or are they similar. are there different meanings.

2007-02-12 13:23:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:23:08 · 14 answers · asked by Sherrie J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not mean 'guy's girl' as a heterosexual girlfriend and a 'girl's girl' as a homosexual girlfriend.

2007-02-12 13:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by greene01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after dating someone for about 6 weeks..whats a good gift idea without coming on to strong or aggressive for valentines day?

2007-02-12 13:21:40 · 11 answers · asked by andrew 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:21:26 · 4 answers · asked by cramit_6969 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating 2 months...at beginning and middle i told him we should just keep it cool and go slow...he is very affectionate, kind, and always listens...im 24/american and successful he is 33 mexican and very successful...he would say things like "only you" after we slept together and got embarrassed and said he really really liked me and wouldnt normally spend time with someone when he was tired just after traveling for his work...he got in a car accident and his roomate kicked him out this month...he ended up moving in with his own room for awhile against my better judgement...im starting to have feelings...i told him that i dont want to sleep with "just a friend"...he said the same thing i said, keep it cool and time...now he has been away with his job for 7 days in central america and has not called...he responded to both of my emails very friendly and said he was very busy and tired and couldnt wait to go home...but he hasnt called or responded to my last text...

2007-02-12 13:21:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:20:49 · 8 answers · asked by Simone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought that's what they wanted!

2007-02-12 13:20:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by cramit_6969 1 in Singles & Dating

he had emailed me and sent pictures and i would like to know if he is in Canada where he says he's at or running a scam for africa.

2007-02-12 13:20:23 · 3 answers · asked by tonya h 1 in Singles & Dating

have liked him for a long time now and I finally told him. He said he wasnt going to tell but the next day he did tell. It upset me and I let him know that. I felt really guilty about it and apoligized about a million time. He admitted that he made a mistake. We are friends again and we talk and he stares at me a lot and smiles at me in the hallway, and I still like him but he has a younger and really mean girlfriend. He told one of his friends that he doesnt really like his girlfriend. I still like him, so what should I do after he breaks up with his mean girl friend? Thanks for the advice. : )

2007-02-12 13:19:48 · 15 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

well I was in a relationship with this guy for a little over a year and he broke up with me for some reason I still dont know....its been like 4 months since i've been with him and in those 4 "lovely" months I was so desperate for someone to love me again and when im depressed and desperate like that I start just going out with random guys just so that I can fill up that empty spot....I could of had my ex back so many times but everytime I thought about him breaking up with me I still didnt want nothing to do with him....but now I want him back for sure and I dont want to mess things up....at first it kinda seemed like he wanted me back but now it sounds like he wants nothin to do with me, because everytime I want to talk to him he always uses the excuse "im busy" but never tells me y? I wanna get over my ex but I just cant. any suggestions on what I should do should I still try to get him back? leave him alone?...keep in mind that I really want him back so dont give me a sorry answer

2007-02-12 13:19:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this is for my bestest friend....she has a boyfriend and she like this other dude just as much....he asked her out and she told him that she would answer him tommarow or thursday...What should she say?

2007-02-12 13:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:19:24 · 11 answers · asked by Simone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello My name is Kenny and I would like too get a new friend or more
please don't think I am a priv because I am not!!
I live in ontero canada I have I girl friend but not every mean others and it is good to meat new people I already made one new friend and some others I don't like...

little about me I love to hang out wacth tv talk on msn I don't smoke or do drugs my fav coloer is blue and I am 15 years old and I do say eh sometimes and if you make fun of that :@

my msn
nuclear7@hotmail.com

the one friend shes 14 and is not a perv belive me!!!!!!!

demuffinman42@yahoo.com

if you add me or she or us thinks!! and if you don't well you don't

2007-02-12 13:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it hard to find a guy who loves you? Or does he love you for your money?

2007-02-12 13:19:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 13:19:05 · 4 answers · asked by cramit_6969 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant tell..im only a teenager...like any specific signs or anything???
i am just wondering..it seems like one of my good guy friends likes me..but idk!

2007-02-12 13:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by girlygeek1991 2 in Singles & Dating

He is always making refrences to having sex with me, but he doesn't want to ruin our friendship. He tells me that he likes me and I'm awesome.Also, we hang out alot and when we aren't he tells me he misses me. He thinks that they may break up and keeps telling me to be patient. I don't know what to do, besides just wait and see what happens. I can't get him off my mind. We work together, too; so I have to see him everyday.

2007-02-12 13:18:37 · 10 answers · asked by KA 1 in Singles & Dating