Ok so this is for my bestest friend....she has a boyfriend and she like this other dude just as much....he asked her out and she told him that she would answer him tommarow or thursday...What should she say?
2007-02-12 13:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she needs to follow her heart.
2007-02-12 13:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by pete w 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the way i see it, when you are with someone you REALLY care about, you don't really look at anyone else. Obviously you find people attractive but you really don't consider leaving someone for another. You usually just overlook the issue. It seems that if your friend is seriously considering leaving her current bf for this new guy, then she really doesn't like her current. I'd tell her to decide what she really wants at the moment and what she wants out of a relationship and then decided what to do not only about the new guy but also her current guy.
2007-02-12 13:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by vail2073 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.....very similar to my friend even the day!!! but it was last year!!!
You know what, just tell her to break up with her boyfriend because he really doesn't deserve a girlfriend that would just reconsider their relationship for another, its very unethical and not right at all, she thinks she likes someone else and even reconsiders it, meaning she doesn't really value her love for her boyfriend that much, and even though if she did, its never right to do that to your partner because she wouldn't want the same thing to be done to her.....
in a weird sense she is actually already cheating on him for even considering an offer to be with another guy... he deserves someone that will commit to him and not drift away with another guy.... sooner or later, she will deeply hurt him or even cause further commotion, its better to just break up to her boyfriend and find a guy she could really stay stable with and commit....
2007-02-12 13:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by badluck13b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should go to her boyfriend and tell him the situation so he can decide if he wants to kick her to the curb or not.
A relationship is about you and the person you're in it with, together. If she wants to involve herself with someone else, then she's affecting the relationship and the other person in the relationship, her boyfriend. He has the right to decide how he wants to react to this, since it involves him.
2007-02-12 13:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i guess first she should find out what they have in commen then see how she feels around him if that helps at all than she can find out who she likes by listening to her heart.she can also tell her boyfriend how she feels even if she i uncomfortable with it ....hope i helped
2007-02-12 13:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by suga;honey;icetea 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋