i like this girl who used to like me. but ever since i called her and her dad saw the id and she got in trouble shes stopped liking me. i thought i could move on. then i saw her again. (we hardly see each other) i tryed to avoid her cuz i just didnt want to get in her way. i assumed that she would feel uncomfortable around me. but man i realized that i wouldnt be moving on any time soon. people think i did(including her). but i havent. ive looked for other girls but none make me feel the way she does. its been 8 months since i started liking her. i thought the way i liked her would just be a stage. but everyone time i see her i know that its going to last. ive decided to still like her but i wont try to get her back. im happy if she's happy. seeing her smile and face and hearing her laugh is better than being with some other girl. i know she wont be happy with me. am i doing the right thing? or am i just being stupid?
2007-02-12 13:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by pnoybaler 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say that your happy if she is - and this is not really true as you still want to be with her and with your lack of communication you really don't know what makes her happy and if in fact she is happy with the current situation.
Be bold. Take a chance. Go speak to her when you see her. Call her again. Mail her a Valentines Day card. Make sure she knows who you are and how you feel. If you do nt take the time to tell her you are just torturing yourself and no resolution will come, you will only wonder "waht could have been." Regret is never an option and only fools lose sleep over what could have been. Sieze the moment and deal with the repercussions like a man. You will benefit both in the short and long run.
2007-02-12 13:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errr.... yah.
You're being stupid. You're not the girl, she is.
Look. You're how old? 15? 16? Teenage highschool drama is well.... just that. If you really wanna make the right decision move on. You've had your fun, but now you're just unnecessarily burdening yourself to the point that you're ruining your own life. It's almost like you're workshipping the girl since you enjoy that stupid gut wrenching feeling guys get when they know they're down and out.
Get out, play the field, and find someone new to lollygag over. You should be enjoying girls, not being faithful to them. She's probably already gone thru 2 boyfriends by now, so you're just being vain. Get up and move on. Not for her good, not for her father's sake, not for your school, and not for anyone else. Do it for YOU.
2007-02-12 21:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being stupid, no offense. don't make a big deal out of it your not a girl, who cares
2007-02-12 21:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Audi11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for her
2007-02-12 21:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgretchem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋