I thought that's what they wanted!
2007-02-12 13:20:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been through this many times when I was younger sweetie. I used to think that if i slept with a guy that meant he liked me and would stay with me. Through many experiences with this I never learned. One day a guy finally told me "it's all about self control and respect." A guy WILL not ever respect you if you just give it up. Guys want a challange. Try this for me please......If a guy wants it don't give it to him NO MATTER what he tells you. Guys will tell you anything to get you in bed. Try this a few times or whatever and see what difference it will make. Please trust me on this, I have had own personal experience with it. It made a big difference to me. Good luck and chin up:)
2007-02-12 13:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly_tat_luver79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats why they go out with you and don't call back. Men are bigger gossips than women when it comes to sex. They go out with you because you have developed a reputation and they know you will give it up and thats all the want. Try not giving it up for awhile, eventually you will find a guy that is actually in to you and hang around. Not to mention you may be cutting your life short by sleeping with everyone you meet. I am 32 have had 4 sex partners since the age of 16. First relationship, 3 years, second-9 years, third-1 year, current 3 years. And I always wait awhile to give it up. In fact the guy I am with had a reputation for only dating easy women, and he said I would go out with a woman 1 time and that was it, didn't like second dates very often because then they expect things. With me he didn't even try for over a month and then, I was the one that invited him. We've been together ever since.
2007-02-12 13:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by KricketP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go figure. Why should they call back? Men usually chase the "unknown". When they know everything there is to know the first time around, why come back? You can help yourself by having more self respect. If you don't expect a call back then keep doing what you do but if you don't than it's apparent that you need to make better choices with how you end your night. One thing you will or should have learned by now is that a man can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
2007-02-12 13:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by QuEEn B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course that's what they want, but y n the world would u degrade urself 4 a quick fcuk? This is exactly y they don't call u back, becuz u already gave it up, so what more do they want from u? Certainly not a relationship, gurl u need 2 luv urself more. What ur doing is not makn love all u doing is fcukn every guy u meet.
2007-02-12 13:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will never call you back after you give it up on the first date. Because regardless of the game they give you about how into you they are; a man will only love a hoe for the night.
2007-02-12 13:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by texaslady73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure some guys want to get it on the first date. And I don't think I could name one man who would pass it up if it was offered. But you are making yourself look easy and desperate. Why are you worrying about what they want? You should be more worried with what you want. Make a man treat you with respect and get to know you before you just give in to his sexual advances. If all he wants is to get laid is that really what you are looking for in a relationship? You are worth more than what you are giving yourself credit for. Make a man work to get to know you and you will keep his interest.
2007-02-12 13:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your number?!!
Just kidding. I think that if you give it up on the first date, you may not be someone that they want a relationship with.
After the first date, they've already reached their goal.
I may have to turn in my membership card to the men's club for
this but, try not doing it on the first date, and see if they call back.
If they don't, then at least you know it's not THAT issue.
2007-02-12 13:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Skyhawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestley if you really want a realationship then this is not the way to go. The only way the works is to wait for marriage believe me. I dated this guy for a year before even considering having sex with him. I really thought he loved me, and i loved him alot to. But even after a year sex messed everything up for us. A week after i lost my virginity to him, he told me he thought we should go are seprate ways!!! I'm telling you guys are *****. And my current boyfriend well things aren't going well with him either after i had sex with him he began treating me compleletly difrently. Unless you find the perfect guy having sex is not a good thing to do to keep a relationship going. And once your married have all the sex you want and if he leaves you then... then i have no advice for you other then wow that guys an asshole
2007-02-12 13:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men see 2 types of women. Girlfriend types and whore types. If a woman sleeps with a man on the first date, then it's obvious that she'll sleep with anyone. A man wants his girlfriend to be respectable.
2007-02-12 13:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First , you should ask yourself why you give it up .!
No self-confidence ?
If you get the answer by yourself , then you'll understand
why they don't call you .!
And "Calling back" , means that you gave your number or ,
at least , that you already called them . . !
Who wants a date with no future .?
Only stupid guys . . ?
. . .
2007-02-12 13:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by In_Ze_Baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋