Is it hard to find a guy who loves you? Or does he love you for your money?
2007-02-12 13:19:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it can be hard to find a guy if you spend too much time in the office. Particularly if you live in a city where there isn't a lot of single friendly things to do and places to meet. As far as knowing if the guy is in love with you for your money, well you don't have to tell them off the bat what you do for a living or how much money you make. You can slowly tell the guy as he shows whether or not he is really interested in you for you. I know because I have experienced all of this. The main thing as far as meeting people, if you are living in an area where it is hard to meet people you have to put in a lot of effort to go out and be around other single people. Even if that means utilizing the internet (which some people will scoff at but if you are careful it can work for you). I know because I met my BF online (had to go out on a LOT of bad first dates though but it was worth it). I work a lot of hours and there just weren't many places to meet a nice guy. I didn't tell him right away what I did for a living exactly. He didn't know I owned a house right away and he didn't know how much I made til a lot later. We've been going out 6 months now and things are going really well.
2007-02-12 13:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that. I think it's a combination of the status and materials things they see you have acquired on your own, and they want a piece of it all. That's why it's so important to be careful of who you date. Make sure they have as much as you do...if not, MORE than you.
2007-02-12 21:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by M2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? I don't need or want a guy who loves me. I love me enough.
2007-02-12 23:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you assume it's hard to find a guy?
2007-02-12 21:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋