Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

my husband just left me today. we have been having BIG problems for a long time, and i have to admit i've thought about leaving myself many times, SO i know how he feels. i know that he loves me in his own way..but we just couldnt see eye to eye about anything.. i feel sad that its over but also feel a peace in my heart, what can i do to keep my spirits up and NOT call him and ask him to come home..which would be done out of shear loneliness..but sometimes u get comforatable in something even tho u know its wrong..help me..anyone else going thro this!
how do u let go of someone u love, knowing its for the best of both of you??

2007-02-11 07:38:40 · 30 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have nothing i common anymore, he only goes out with his friends and won't take me out even if I pay! He never is physical anymore even though I do everything to try. I am attractive so I dont know what the problem is? He always is gone and never does anything at home except sleep and eat. I feel like i contribute and he does nothing for this marriage or me. we have one young child. I am lonely and bored with this relationship but don't know if i should give up on it or not?

2007-02-11 07:38:15 · 35 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 4 yrs now and during this time his father has been a nitemare, constantly falling out with myself or my husband over the most trivial things. We havent spoken for nearly 2 yrs and in this time my husband has spoken to him on and off. Now i'm pregnant and things hav gone from bad to worse, He has told my husband that he's f**ked up his life big time and has offered him whatever he wants if he agrees to leave me.

My husband takes my side all the time but it doesn't stop the situation causing problems, i sometimes think he resents me because he doesn't see as much of his family as he'd like and although he takes my side i'm sure he blames me for alot of it.

How do i deal with this, being pregnant don't ned the stress just now!

2007-02-11 07:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by princess 79 1 in Family

2007-02-11 07:36:34 · 7 answers · asked by iceprincessk8r 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't mean to be disrespectful, but I can't imagine it would be easy to take your mind off it.

2007-02-11 07:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which is better a pen or pencil?? why?

2007-02-11 07:35:49 · 13 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Friends

I want to ,but im afraid if she likes i to much ,she might not come back to me.

2007-02-11 07:35:41 · 29 answers · asked by loki4975 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am trying to get an idea of what flowers i would like for my wedding and need to know if any of you know of a website that shows the flowers and not just names them..thanks in advance.

2007-02-11 07:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

You see them everywhere and I am not sure if they really are any good at helping people find people to date. I have never used one. Only surfed as a visitor.

2007-02-11 07:33:24 · 15 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2 in Singles & Dating

well she brok up with me cuz we coddint talk then i saw her yestur day and we sat nex to chuther and held hans the i wuz walking her out and she took my arm and put it on her sholder (can she still like me

2007-02-11 07:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 07:31:54 · 92 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to sum my story up.....there is this guy from my school who is really sweet! But right now hes having troubles w/ his girl friend! so i try to comfort him by talking to him and giving him some advice! well after our convo he leans in to kiss me! (and i am not at all attracted to this guy what so ever! i actually like his best friend) but quickly i push him away and say RYAN you have a girlfriend! what should i do!!!

A) should i talk to him? and if so what should i say?
B) avoid him
C) try to get with his best friend quickly so he sees that im not into him and never will be!

HELP ME! PLEASE!

2007-02-11 07:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by lovelyleah 1 in Friends

i think this guy likes me he looks over at me and stares and well i dunno does he like me in that way or does he think what is she
i am really confused help

2007-02-11 07:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by xxpookiexx 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a really nice boyfriend, and i love him a lot. But lately its seems like hes really into kissing. I don't really mind kissing him, but its the making out that I don't like. Everytime he tries to I back off and so does he. What shoudl I do? Do i just make out with him and live? Or should i keep avoiding it? I'm not sure what to do. Take note that I'm only 13. Please help!

2007-02-11 07:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just anything that really bugged you, please keep it clean!

2007-02-11 07:27:47 · 26 answers · asked by Boston Bluefish 6 in Family

Leave a link if possible please. Thanks!

2007-02-11 07:27:37 · 1 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Family

What should i have ?????????/?
what should i have to attract a girl other than a good body

2007-02-11 07:27:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i havn't had intercourse yet in our lives, when he first asked me to have intercourse with him, i said i wasn't ready yet, when i said no, did he feel bad? and guilty? and sorry? etc? cause we have been dating for over 2 months now, and he hasn't asked me since....

2007-02-11 07:26:37 · 11 answers · asked by US 3 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are waiting to have sex at my six week mark and he is getting really irritated and unpleasant about the whole thing. He has a very very strong sex drive and I just wanted to know how other moms dealt with this.

2007-02-11 07:26:31 · 15 answers · asked by renney007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sighns of ur bf cheating? what are they?

2007-02-11 07:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's it like? You just come home from work one day and say, "Hi, I'm home. Fine day at work. Oh, by the way, stopped at the courthouse today to file for divorce. What's for dinner?"
How did that go for you??

2007-02-11 07:25:34 · 12 answers · asked by animal_mother 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 07:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by taiwo h 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (we have been dating for years) mentioned how he would think about going to see strippers. This makes me very uncomfortable. It especially makes me feel uncomfortable because we had some big bumps in our relationship which we are trying to work out to be a stronger couple and I said going to a stripper at this time would not help our situation. He still is being stubborn and says if he wants to go that he wants me to be okay with it...and is not budging.
He said that they are not a big deal and its just for viewing purposes.
He never takes me to dinner, or buys me things...which is okay because we are both poor college students. However, if he has money to go to a Strip club, then shouldn't he either reconsider us or do something for me too? If he's too broke for anything for us, but can go to a stripper, to me isnt his priorities to our relationship mixed up?

2007-02-11 07:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by pizzagirl 3 in Singles & Dating

what should I do?!

2007-02-11 07:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by jamacianbarbie 1 in Singles & Dating

the problem is that she is always with her friends, do you have any suggestions. Thanks.

2007-02-11 07:24:27 · 16 answers · asked by keith_ae2010 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is everyone here to young?

2007-02-11 07:24:13 · 6 answers · asked by confused (again) 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you take it if a girl thats pretty looking said to you 'you look cute' ???

2007-02-11 07:23:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 07:23:00 · 7 answers · asked by morgan b 1 in Friends

there is this guy that like me and i like him. we only talk on the phone and stuff. and we r such flirts. i haven't seen him in months. when i do c him, won't it b hard? i mean it's easier talking to him on the fone. imma b nervous and i don't want it to b so obvious. wont it b harder to talk since we r face to face. wow, i blush just thinking about him.

2007-02-11 07:22:52 · 1 answers · asked by Vampire Kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i say things like well for example jumping i would say well guys can jump higher cuz they have no boobs or but or thunder thigs hwo can i stop being sexest

2007-02-11 07:22:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating