to sum my story up.....there is this guy from my school who is really sweet! But right now hes having troubles w/ his girl friend! so i try to comfort him by talking to him and giving him some advice! well after our convo he leans in to kiss me! (and i am not at all attracted to this guy what so ever! i actually like his best friend) but quickly i push him away and say RYAN you have a girlfriend! what should i do!!!
A) should i talk to him? and if so what should i say?
B) avoid him
C) try to get with his best friend quickly so he sees that im not into him and never will be!
HELP ME! PLEASE!
2007-02-11 07:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by lovelyleah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how about a combination of all three?
talk to him, explain to him that its nothing personal, that you adore him as a friend, but that this is it. tell him that he's a great guy (stroke his ego, guys are so insecure) but explain to him FIRMLY that you like someone else. if he takes it well, explain to him who it is... just don't go after his best friend, you'll end up hurting him more i think. talk to him, let him know whats going on. if he's a good sport about it all, he might even help you get in good with his buddy. if he's a complete *** about it.. well then result to B and avoid him and do whatever the hell you want. you can only cater to people's emotions for so long before it gets to be too tedious. and after all- you should be allowed to live too. after you take the steps to follow common courtesy in awkward situations like this, and your end result is zero for your invested time and efforts, then i say... screw it and have fun.
2007-02-11 07:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by onedrop808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already given him the answer by pushing him away and if he does it again tell him that he must not have got the message the last time so Im telling you again , Im not and never will have any interest in you except for friendship purposes only and you are putting that at risk right now..Now was my English clear enough for you to understand this time ?
2007-02-11 15:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about what happened and tell him that you don't like him. You also need to talk to the guy you like b/c if "ryan" tells his best friend that you too kissed.... he might get the wrong idea and think that you do like ryan.
2007-02-11 15:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds a little confused. I dont know that I would bring up his attempted kiss, but maybe taking a little bit of time away from him would help, although sooner or later you should mention to him that you see him as a friend.
2007-02-11 15:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by Shy_and_Sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how YOU want to confront it. You could tell him that you don't like him like that, but by avoiding him you could send him the wrong message. Trying to show him you don't like him like that probably won't work, either. Perhaps he had been dating to see how you felt about him? Anyways, it would probably be best to talk to him. You might want to say something along the lines of "I'm sorry, i don't like you like that." but be sure to make your own decision!!
2007-02-11 15:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Aly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Tell him how you feel and that your not into him like that. Let him know that your into his best friend and you like him as nothing more then a friend. You need to be honest with him.
2007-02-11 15:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do a. because even though he did that he was probarly just confused and didnt mean it. and if he did well explain that you dont feel the same way and hopefully he should get the picture. if that doesnt work then forget about him and do c instead lol.i hope this helps xxx
2007-02-11 15:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by wizzybeth18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hard but dont try avoiding him he will just keep bugging u and asking u whats wrong u shude probably talk to him and tell him that u cant do it because its just wrong he has a girlfriend and u can probably even tell him u lik his friend
2007-02-11 15:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Gawd, option B
2007-02-11 15:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him .. only if he comes to talk to u ... u dont wanna seem like u've forgotten the whole thing before he apoligies for it... and yeah go for his best frn
2007-02-11 15:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋