My wife wants to brin in another women to the bed with us,is that a good idea?

Question

I want to ,but im afraid if she likes i to much ,she might not come back to me.

Answer 1

I don't think you have to worry about your wife leaving you for this woman, she would just like to play and have fun. One thing though, before this happens, you need to lay out the ground rules to keep everyone happy so as not to cross a line somewhere. Some threesome do not involve all aspects of sex, it depends on who want to go where, so that there is not a fight over something that bothers someone. Let her have fun, she is not a bad person and be thankful that you have a relationship that is open enough to discuss this, at least this is not all behind you back. : )

Answer 2

Man no prob! Go for it.
Don't be afraid, you just got a let it happen ok! You'll love it,
your wife will love it,
your friend will love it.
As long as she don't expect a
3 sum w/ another man down the road,
is that what your really afraid of?
If so I feel for ya buddy cause, that means all bets are off, unless you can do it w/ no strings no promises just good ol free wild hot steamy safe and free sex.If that is the case why ask the question!
Go for it!

Answer 3

Marreid 26 years, wife and I have done this dozens of times, have a girl friend that lives with us. Some times during the summer we have up to 4 women over, always have a good time, only problems have been when other husbands found out. Go for it.

Answer 4

depends on how secure the marriage is. It is all a matter of trust. She could, as you say, like the girl more and leave.
you could like the girl more and leave her. it could be a fun adventure for the both of you. And you have to consider the other girl's feelings too. what if she has feelings for either of you? what happens when the threesome relationship is over? many questions. I have never seen this kind of relationship work, and i have seen quite a few of them, but it doesnt mean that it cant. you both just have to consider all the variables.

Answer 5

Maybe your wife just wants to spice up the relationship a bit. If she truly loves you, I wouldn't worry about her liking it too much. Maybe she finds that it would be sexually stimulating for both of you. She sounds pretty secure in the relationship to invite another women...most women might never suggest that, out of jealousy. Discuss it thoroughly with her and cover all the issues, if she reassures in the areas you need to reassured in, then I would say it's fine.

Answer 6

if your wife is willing to bring another woman into your marriage, there's probably something you didn't know about her past! you dont wake up one morning and think to involve another person in your marriage. this could create problems within your marriage because what happens if she enjoys this woman more than you??or decides your having tooo much fun with it??honestly i really believe you don't want this cause if you did you wouldn't be here asking questions! in my opinion it may be good the first few tries but eventually this could be a breaking point for your marriage. just think about the consequences first

Answer 7

Take it form me. Once you do something like that, your relationship with your wife will never be the same. I won't say good or bad but never the same. Make sure that's a line you are truely willing to cross. And if she does bring another lady .......take pictures wink

Answer 8

& you are right to have this concern because when most women tap into this type of behavior, its because they are already involved with the other woman. Just tell your wife how you feel, but I get the feeling that she will do this, with or without you!

Answer 9

kat asks a good question. what is she lacking and can you give it to her? trust me, bringing another queen into the household will not fix the problem and it will ruin what you have. better hava talk first.

Answer 10

No certainly not ,do not agree with this on any terms ,instead you need to confront your wife over her attitude.