I have a really nice boyfriend, and i love him a lot. But lately its seems like hes really into kissing. I don't really mind kissing him, but its the making out that I don't like. Everytime he tries to I back off and so does he. What shoudl I do? Do i just make out with him and live? Or should i keep avoiding it? I'm not sure what to do. Take note that I'm only 13. Please help!
2007-02-11 07:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him you aren't ready for that step yet, & be proud of yourself for holding out. There aren't many young women like you, who would rather wait than rush into something, because they feel obligated to.
2007-02-11 07:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart try and stay out of places alone with him. Go to places with your friends.Or over your house.Don't let any boy make u do something your not ready to do. If he really truely likes u then he'll want to wait until your comfortable.Good luck
2007-02-11 15:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't feel comfortable making out yet, but its not him. Let him know that when you do feel ready you'll let him know. If he really cares for you, then he will understand and not try anymore. If he doesn't seem to understand that, and says something inappropriate, then he isn't the one for you.
2007-02-11 15:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by bronco_cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep avoiding it,the fact that you're uncomfortable means your not ready...and you have as long as you need to get ready.If your bf breaks up with you because you won't "do it" it means he didn't really love ya,just wanted to jump your bones...
2007-02-11 15:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by keith s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not ready to make out then don't tell him how you feel an he should understand. don't ever do anything you don't wanna do!
2007-02-11 15:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋