my boyfriend and i havn't had intercourse yet in our lives, when he first asked me to have intercourse with him, i said i wasn't ready yet, when i said no, did he feel bad? and guilty? and sorry? etc? cause we have been dating for over 2 months now, and he hasn't asked me since....
2007-02-11 07:26:37 · 11 answers · asked by US 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't accidentally rape someone. Rape implies that willful force was involved.
If you said that you weren't ready and your boyfriend didn't push any further, that's not rape. If you said you weren't ready and the sex still occurred, THIS would be rape.
The fact that your boyfriend just asked you to have sex doesn't mean he was raping you. If you aren't clear on this fact, I'm glad you aren't having sex yet - you're visibly not ready. This means that it's also a good thing that your boyfriend hasn't asked you since.
2007-02-11 07:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This (especially the not wanting to be apart and loving him) is typical domestic abuse characteristics. the men that do them have cleaver ways in which they make you fall in love with them again and again. this is because they apologies. and say how much they love you. i really think you should tell one friend everything and them when you think you have got it all off of your chest go in secret to the police and ask to remain anonymous. do it now as it WILL get worse. he may even Lock you up and stop you seeing your family, (these are all realistic and more than likely results). and for the loving him part, you may love him with all your heart but he does not love you. no matter how much he says he does. so leave this dead end relationship and go and find a man that loves you and respects you for who you are. and you might as well turn him into the police. all that he has done to you is a very bad crime and can get put away and by the sounds of it he Truly deserves it. if anyone else tried to rape you you know what you would do!!! you disserve better
2016-05-23 22:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidently rape you he didnt do anything!! So no! He probably felt a little awkward when you said no and feels like he doesn't want to pressure you maybe he thinks you will tell him when you are ready. Sounds like he just respects your feelings.
2007-02-11 07:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused by your question and then comments after. At first I thought you had had sex. Then i read that oyu said no. So to answer your first question no he didn't rape you. He might feel bad and guilty now if oyu did have sex but don't feel you are ready to continue. But later on in your relationship if it works out and oyu both agree on having sex then he'll realize you did it for him and love him and whatnot.
2007-02-11 07:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by LoveStruck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably going to wait on you which is a good thing. Do you want him to approach you? If not than just be glad that he isn't.
2007-02-11 07:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right this doesn't make sense.But, maybe he feels quilty because he tried to convince you to do it , when you had already said no.
2007-02-11 07:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by stacia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he respects your decision and will leave it up to you to decide when you are ready and to say so.
2007-02-11 07:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may be angry and hurt but definitely doesnt feal like he raiped you.
2007-02-11 07:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u changed your mind tell him about it
2007-02-11 07:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was kid of shame cause you rejected him.
2007-02-11 07:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋