11 years of marriage, most of which I thought were wonderful, crazy in love.We had some serious financial issues, 100% my fault, I accepted the consequenses that came and worked very very hard to show my husband that I wanted to do anything and I went above and beyond to correct the mess. I did it and I did it well. No matter how hard I worked or how hard I tried, it was never enough for him.
We separated, he admitted an affair during our marriage, and began an affair openly with a girlfriend of mine, and one with a 23 year old at his work.
I fell apart and I cried and begged him not to go, made a total jerk of myself 100% He divorced me. I have not stopped asking him to come back..
He said: "I don't want you to get your hopes up, but I still miss you but can't forgive you". He then asked me to forgive him for the awful pain and heartache he caused me -
How does one ask to be forgiven but won't forgive -- do I turn and go and never look back or do I continue to wait.
2007-02-11
10:15:46
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