I can't ask this girl out, what do i do!?

Question

I like This girl in my class, and i can tell she likes me, everytime i try to ask her out i can't, help me out yall.

Answer 1

Get yourself out there and let the world know you're available!

Maybe the girl you're crushing on is crushing on you too, but thinks you're taken. Drop hints that you like her or just bluntly say so.

Get involved in activities. Girls like guys that are doing things - especially sports. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have more options.

Be bold. Girls always like confidence, so tell her what you have to say. There is always a time for subtleties later.

Humor is always a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you.

Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ie, jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.

Be romantic and sweet to her.

Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far...If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.

Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc.

Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style.

Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes.

Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that.

People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further.

Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather.

Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.

Call her and ask to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyways.

Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.

Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc.

Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that.

You can't act like you do around your male friends.

Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better.

Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "DAAAAMMMNNN!!" when they walk into the room, but some would be really offended.

To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.

Don't be too clingy. Give her space.

Tips

Make a point of remembering her birthday.

Connect to her using body language. Let her catch you looking at her from the corner of your eye. Show her your interested. Find any excuse to touch her. You can try bumping into her while walking, but don't make it look intentional.

Be yourself, don't act out a character you're not.

Show you have confidence; girls hate guys with low self-confidence.

Always stay clean; you can easily drive away a girl if you have bad breath or dirty clothes.

Work on building a friendship with her friends (remember that friends play a big role in who to go out with). So get on the friends' good side so they will give the girl their approval.

Or, if you want to be daring, you can even tell the girl's friends that you like her, and ask them not to tell her (if they tell her, don't be alarmed—they could be saying that because said girl might like you, which is good for you).

Warnings
If you go in for a kiss at the end of your date and she says that she is uncomfortable or that you are going too fast, then slow down. If you really like her you will respect her opinion.

Try not to be too possessive, because most people still like their own personal space.

Don't rush into anything. Get to know each other before starting a relationship. If another man is trying to steal her away, be protective of her -- some girls like to be defended by the guy they like.

Don't be brutally honest. If a girl asks you if she's fat, never say yes - even if she is. Girls like you to boost up their self-esteem!

She may end up not liking you even if you do all these things. Oh well! There are other fish in the sea!

Don't stalk her. Keep your distance or else you'll just creep her out. You have to be at least a little mysterious.

Answer 2

slip a note into her locker or bag. try and put a flower in with it. or you can send her some flowers with a note to dinner or something. or you can just start talking to her and ask her.