my ex and i broke up a day b4 new years(i threatened to call the cops on him) since then i did well with no contact neither one of us spoke or saw each other...well 2 weeks after we broke up he called my cell a couple of times at 3 and 4 in the morning but i never picked up ..so i decided to changed my cell...well last night i got really drunk called him at his job and he told me to call his cell after he got off work...i called him at 5.30 in the morning he didnt picked up i left a message...i called back when i woke up left another message and i also send him 2 text meassages he didnt reply to any..but last night wen i was drunk he said to call his cell...he didnt answer any of my messages...wats up ( we were toghter 4 years)
2007-02-11 10:14:05 · 8 answers · asked by Exotic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wanted to show you how it feels.
2007-02-11 10:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Think long about WHY the two of you broke up in the first place. It must not have been a good relationship if you almost had to call the cops!
After you remember why the relationship went south, tell yourself that you don't care what he thinks or does! It doesn't matter if he never calls you again, you will be better off for it int he long run! In fact, I would reccomend not calling him again, at all, drunk dial or not!
Just keep reminding yourself that you deserve better and tell yourself over and over the reasons that you broke up in the beginning.
Good luck!
2007-02-11 18:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One problem you have is that you are drinking too much. Second, why do you want someone who acted so badly that you were forced to call the cops. Sober up and get on the look out for a good guy who will care for you. Keep drinking like that and you will end up with a drunk
2007-02-11 18:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he did it to you and now you got him back with the 3 and 4am phone calls. This is really childish actually. If I were you I would not bother with him. If he was really into you he wouldn't of done what he did, move on and find someone who really cares about you. Life is too short to be unhappy. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 18:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you both are playing mind games with each other. Move on already. Unless you still think theirs a chance for you both.
2007-02-11 19:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a prime example as to why people should never use the phone when they are drinking.
let it go.....he's either playing games with you, trying to give you a taste of your own medicine or he decided that he should just leave well enough alone.
why did you call him? because you miss HIM or you're just lonely??
2007-02-11 18:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by katalah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him call you when he is ready then communicate. Fight for your relationship. But let him feel like it is on his terms.
2007-02-11 18:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by kandisue76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus !stop playing games and just ask him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-02-11 18:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋