Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

how can i avoid the heartache? this person is a dear friend of mine ( in friend i mean a work colleague of whom is someone that i enjoy knowing due to his extremely magnetic personality ) and i dont want to ruin the friendship one bit...is it inevitable that heartache is to come?..me knowing the he would never love me in the same way due to some circumstance or other..i know he is fond of me but im not sure if he gets a kick out of just entertaining his own ego?

2007-02-11 14:02:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, so there's this guy, okay? And I really feel connected to him, but it's totally obvious he's crushing on this 'quiet' girl across town. Do guys really find the 'quiet type' attractive? How do I reel this guy in without being overly suggestive? Thanks!

2007-02-11 14:01:43 · 6 answers · asked by *erica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 14:01:22 · 11 answers · asked by clashinggrandeur 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres the deal i'm a 20 year old virgin and i want lose it bad. I've really never had a girlfriend. I'm kind of shy and i fell that if i lose my virginity my life will change and i will be more of a lady's man. My first question is do you think losing my virginity will boost my confedence make me feel better about my self less shy ect?

The other thing is that this girl has been with 7 other guy (1 of them was a virgin) she says she loves sex. and really wants virgin guys. She told me that she always practices safe sex and had been tested and is clean. Should i lose it to here or wait and do the right way....get into a relationship blalal you know what i'm mean.
So what should i do?

2007-02-11 14:01:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

nothing innaproprate please

2007-02-11 14:00:40 · 4 answers · asked by hairspray queen 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I suffer from very mild depression - I can become depressed for periods of up to three days once or twice a month - and I think that one of the things that may help my situation a lot is getting a girlfriend.
First off how should I go about trying to get her, like any advice literally is greatly aprreciated. She is a really nice girl and i think she has a small amount of intrest in me. One thing im worried about is if her friends or mine talk to her about me behind my back or tell her not to go out with me ect. One other thing im worried about is if my marijuan smoking will interfeer in our relationship to a point where it is unworkable, she is completly against any type of drug. I want this to last atleast a few months so guys, if you can offer me any insight its grealty appreciated.

2007-02-11 14:00:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an ad on Yahoo Personals and most men seem to just look at the picture's and really can't answer one question off your profile. Why can't people see past a face and see the inside of someone?

2007-02-11 13:59:46 · 1 answers · asked by Magical 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were discussing something and I wanted to get someone elses opinion. She is a virgin and her boyfriend is not and thanks to that new American Pie the Naked Mile movie she thinks that a guilt free weeked for her boyfriend to have sex with someone else would be ok. I think it would just be the first string in a yarn ball of lies (hehe) what does everyone else think?

2007-02-11 13:59:27 · 1 answers · asked by wisperssweetnothingz 2 in Singles & Dating

well everything was going ok when we were talking, then out of no where he says "your funny looking" then says "ur a boy" i asked why do you say that? then he replies you just are. b4 he told me hhe likes me & he talks to me everyday almost alll day. why did he say that? so does he really does think i'm "funny looking" because he didn't say just kidding or anything.

2007-02-11 13:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my ipod at school what should i do first

2007-02-11 13:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 5months pregnant(after suffering a lose, last year)and having trouble w/my family, and this baby`s father. They hate each other, and recently my mother made it known 2 him. My mother and I have always had our outs(and the latest, she thinks because I have gay friends I will be a bad mother)after she made this hurtful statement, she finishes w/I will do everything 2 take your baby away from you, cuz of that. I didnt want to get upset, hung up, told bf to tell her I didnt want to talk. When she called back he did, and just ripped into him, callin him every name in the book. He kept his cool, even after all she said. Now I havent spoke to her, and it hurts. What should I do? She isnt the type of person 2 apolize either. My family(which is small)wont even hear my side! Even though my bf hasnt been the greatest, he is stepping up now. She will always be the same, though. Whats your advice?

2007-02-11 13:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by May-May`s mommy 5 in Family

I am a 20 y/o very white guy interested in black girls!!
but do not have the chance to meet any where should i go or is there any in the cicni area that want a white guy
Briand5055@ yahoo.com

2007-02-11 13:57:16 · 20 answers · asked by Brian D 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question. So please don't make fun.

If I make out with a guy I often orgasm before my pants even come off. I always try to pretend nothing is happening because I am embarassed. Sometimes I think it is obvious though. My eyes look watery and my neck flushes.

The only time I ever admitted what happened to a guy he laughed at me and thought I was lying. So now I just keep quiet. (even that is kinda hard to do)

I also recently had one when I got off the bike at the gym. Standing there in the middle of a room. It's really not funny. I am being serious. I will never get on that bike again.

Sometimes I will be hard at work at my desk in my office and not even thinking about sex and it hits me like a huge wave.

Is this really odd? I have always been this way since like 16. And I wouldn't dare ask anyone I know. I think I would die trying to explain to my doctor.

2007-02-11 13:56:55 · 24 answers · asked by Esperenza 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf says its half the size of me

2007-02-11 13:56:36 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now but I always have urges(cheating urges I suppose you could call them. I do love him but I also love attention from other guys. I love the thrill or adrenaline rush. What should I do?

2007-02-11 13:56:34 · 6 answers · asked by diamond86 1 in Singles & Dating

we don't talk much anymore. we used to live in Alaska together and now that he moved to hawaii he doesn't call ore-mail me anymore. one time when i called him he said that he had been busy when in an e-mail that his mom sent me showed me that he was at home the whole time!

2007-02-11 13:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by MelodyMichelle<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I've always been told by women and men alike that I have good looks and most of the time they seem amazed I'm not as active with regard to dating. Throughout school I was on the quite side but by no means shy. Do women get intimidated by some men, aside from obvious reasons? I always seem to initiate conversation, and very rarely is it the other way around. Thanks for your help.

2007-02-11 13:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

get them to notice you

2007-02-11 13:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by santi:) 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that the person who was cheated on ever fully recovers? Do you think that they always have strong anger and resentment? Do they ever forgive and see the person for who they really are or only see the bad?

2007-02-11 13:55:21 · 18 answers · asked by spoildrotn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in this casual r'ship with a guy over 5mths...BUT...i like him to much! I have told him and i want to see him more often...BUT...he just wants casual. Do i still continue the casual thing or just make a stop to it?

2007-02-11 13:55:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and together for 15 years. The marriage is just not working. He told me this weekend he had a gun and he was going to kill me. I called the police and I was told to get a order of protection on him. The police found no gun he said he was just trying to scare me. But he says when I come home from work Monday my stuff will be gone. He has already packed my clothes up. I really dont have any where to go. We have 2 kids together ages 8 and 11. I only work part-time and go to school full time. Please help. What do I need to do? Is there a free legal aid for a divorce? Please everyone out there please pray 4 me and my kids.
Thanks

2007-02-11 13:54:35 · 16 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a big hurricane coming and you pass by a bus stop with three people, a old woman who is about to have a heart attack, your best friend who donated you one of his lungs and the girl of your dream. There's one problem you only have room for one person in your car, who would you pick?

2007-02-11 13:53:51 · 4 answers · asked by Live&Learn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married twice before and now am in a relationship with a wonderful person who is very attentive and caring and has just asked me to marry him. I am sooo afraid of getting married again because I do not want a 3rd divorce....He says that I have walls put up and I probably do but mostly I am just scared...

2007-02-11 13:53:44 · 16 answers · asked by scared 1 in Weddings

2007-02-11 13:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wrote me a note that said i have no girlfriend and he always sits by me and says hi in the hall

2007-02-11 13:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

,before I tried to get his attention sometimes I was ignored some days I wasn't. I am trying to move on and he want to get close. I thought he did not care about me whats up with that? i am tired of this game where I like you one minute and ignore you the next.

2007-02-11 13:52:21 · 2 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

Im quiet around people and my friends. I guess you can say im the "quiet one" in our group. Im not shy or anything, I just prefer to keep my thoughts to myself. Do girls find this attractive. and if I have a girlfriend, I would talk to her

2007-02-11 13:52:10 · 16 answers · asked by Realist 1 in Singles & Dating

What did you do (or wear) that drove your boyfriend, husband or date crazy with desire?

2007-02-11 13:51:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i handle the fact that my mom's boyfriend is a complete jerk and she jut got divorced over the summer. he has 2 kids that are kool but he is totally ruining our family and his family. coming from the 2 kids of both of the parents! the kids cannot live with any other family no family lives in the town and we are miserable! WE have already talking to the parents but they like eachother too much they are always texting and calling eachother and are not having time for us(the kids) we are feeling neglected. we have tried making there lifes miserable(not working) tried making them feel uncomfortable(not working) HELP please give us good advice

2007-02-11 13:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by amanda(: 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE BEING WTH MY BF 4 3 YRS AD HE HAS CHEATED 4 TIMES AND DA LAST ONE WAS WHEN I WAS 6 MTHS PREGNANT WTH HIS BABY SADLY I LOST DA CHILD COS OF DA STRESS I WENT TRU. I ENDED DA RELATIONTION SHORTLY AFTER THAT WE GOT BACK 2GETHER AND MOVED TO A DIFFRENT CITY JUST LEAVE DA PAINFULL PAST BEHIND AND START AFRESH. DA PROBLEM IS IM 6 MTHS PREGNANT AGAIN AND HIS CHEATING AGAIN AND TO DA EXTENT DA SHE TEXT ME RUDE MESSAGES. I KNOW I HAV GET OUT OF THIS BUT ITS HARD TO LET GO COS OF DA FACT THAT I KNOW HIS GOING TO BE WTH HER. I FEEL SO LOW USED , I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY I SHOULD GO TRU THIS TWICE ,WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

2007-02-11 13:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by TRACY 1 in Singles & Dating