I HAVE BEING WTH MY BF 4 3 YRS AD HE HAS CHEATED 4 TIMES AND DA LAST ONE WAS WHEN I WAS 6 MTHS PREGNANT WTH HIS BABY SADLY I LOST DA CHILD COS OF DA STRESS I WENT TRU. I ENDED DA RELATIONTION SHORTLY AFTER THAT WE GOT BACK 2GETHER AND MOVED TO A DIFFRENT CITY JUST LEAVE DA PAINFULL PAST BEHIND AND START AFRESH. DA PROBLEM IS IM 6 MTHS PREGNANT AGAIN AND HIS CHEATING AGAIN AND TO DA EXTENT DA SHE TEXT ME RUDE MESSAGES. I KNOW I HAV GET OUT OF THIS BUT ITS HARD TO LET GO COS OF DA FACT THAT I KNOW HIS GOING TO BE WTH HER. I FEEL SO LOW USED , I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY I SHOULD GO TRU THIS TWICE ,WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
2007-02-11 13:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by TRACY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are sure that he is cheating on you.....then leave that scumbag now.................and you move on..............
I can understand the pain you are going thru....but this is life ........you have to move on......Best of Luck!!!!! and be strong
2007-02-11 13:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by summeravi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you got to realise you're not being loved, just being used. You sound like someone who wants a secure relationship, well you certainly not going to get one with this guy. I guess you don't want to hear that but maybe deep down you know it's true. So - you wait 'till your child is born, then you find someone else with the qualities that you want. Then you feel better, especially 'cos being a mother you'll need security, and you got to think of your child. Forget the other girl, she won't be happy either 'cos your friend will end up cheatin' on her too.
2007-02-11 16:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Londo Mol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please use lower case it feels like you are yelling at me. Fist of all this guy needs help. Once a cheater always a cheater. You are a good person and you deserve to be treated that way. You need to let him go and find someone who really cares about you and your children. Of course its difficult, thats the way most of life is, but life is too short to be unhappy and you need to have good people and a good partner in your life or you will always be unhappy. Ask yourself if this is what you really want? If no, then its going to be a bit easier, knowing that you are doing the right thing, if the girlfriend thinks she is so good, let her have the looser. He will cheat on her too and then she will know how it feels. Pick yourself up and enjoy life. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 14:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive always believed that saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" and well...he helps to prove it. im sorry that you have to go through this. he needs to man up, stop playing these childish games and help you take care of this baby. any fool can make a baby, but it takes a man to raise a child. i mean seriously...the fact that you guys moved to start over and now youre having deja vu...no bueno! and how the hell does that girl know who you are?!?! out of curiousity, how old is everyone that's involved in this? it just sounds like something someone from the age of 15-21 would be doing...
2007-02-11 13:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by JadedHearts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't go through this twice - you're better than that and you've already done the right thing and tried to move on. just because you're having a baby with the man doesn't mean that you have to be with him. he sounds like a loser who doesn't want to be tied down with just one girl anyway. you say he cheated on you 4 times, but those are just the ones you actually know about. sorry, but you have to be smart and respect yourself more than that. get out of the situation and let him do his thing cuz he's not worth your time, girl! be strong!
2007-02-11 13:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to leave him babe, he ain't worth it and he will never change! Think about the baby and what kind of life it will have growing up in a home full of unhappiness. You deserve so much better and at least you can look back and know that you tried. Wishing you the best of luck xxx
2007-02-15 09:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dimples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, we have almost the same situation and we've been together for 8 yrs. in the end, i just let it go. although its hard but i mean, for me, ive done what i can do to make things work. i dont want an innocent child to be another victim. he's not worth your tears sweetie... if you want to let go, you can do it. you cant be sure too if he will stay w/ the same girl for long. knowing he's a cheater, i dont think he will stay w/ the same girl for long.
2007-02-11 13:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy, go after him for child support. Then he'll learn to take some responsibility for his wanderlust!
2007-02-11 13:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋