My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now but I always have urges(cheating urges I suppose you could call them. I do love him but I also love attention from other guys. I love the thrill or adrenaline rush. What should I do?
2007-02-11 13:56:34 · 6 answers · asked by diamond86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to give u more attention.
2007-02-11 13:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes do this---is is usually like you describe it--a rush--knowing you can still attract the guys--or maybe you don't want to admit it, but you think you might do better and you keep the options open---another reason people do this. Millions look and flirt and it is usually innocent--but eventually it will be noticed and do not be surprised if your boyfriend doesn't get bothered by it. It is a blow to the pride and most likely will not be forgotten. Always a source of trouble--sort of like losing the trust he had in you. Sooner or later you have to grow up and stop this stuff--it is going to turn into an insecurity issue--nothing worse than an old lady who has to have all the attention from men--it is downright stupid and ugly---people usually laugh behind your back--and they probably are now, anyway. If you have a nice guy, be thankful and stay with him if you care to. If not, get a nice guy. How would you feel if a guy was doing this to you?? It did not show respect for him or yourself when you flirted. That means a lack of dignity and integrity. Figure it out---it is not becoming.
2007-02-11 14:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diamond, I loved what you said about the thrill or adrenaline rush...and I feel exactly the same way.
2007-02-11 14:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself stop and think about how you will be hurting your partner by doing this, imagine the tears, etc. Stop yourself from doing it, you can always dress up nicely and men will give you attention like that whether you ask for it or not, maybe that will help you.
2007-02-11 14:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you need to think about it. If you really love him, you wouldn't want to cheat on him. Maybe ask him to give you more attention.OR maybe you just aren't ready for commitment
2007-02-11 14:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Deziix33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, don't let him see you doing it.
2007-02-11 14:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋