I'm in this casual r'ship with a guy over 5mths...BUT...i like him to much! I have told him and i want to see him more often...BUT...he just wants casual. Do i still continue the casual thing or just make a stop to it?
2007-02-11 13:55:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the purpose for dating is with marriage in view. if this guy is not wanting it to go future, he is just going to hurt you. casual relationships are not all that fun when the two parties involved are not on the same page. as for a sexual relationship well that is and should be saved for after marriage. after all why buy the cow when hey get the milk for free....
Hope it helps
Janet
2007-02-11 14:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by janet F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a stop to it and see if it alters his perspective. If not, either choose to continue being casual or move on. As long as a man is getting sex without committment, he will see no reason to change the status quo.
2007-02-11 21:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to minimize the pain and hurt you will feel when things fall apart then stop now.
He doesn't feel the same and likely it won't change. You will only hurt yourself by going further and falling more deeply for him.
Trust me it just gets harder and harder. I am currently trying to get out of almost the same thing. I haven't been completely successful but the pain has certainly increased.
Good luck!
2007-02-11 21:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you want is more than he is willing to give than it is probably best to start looking elsewhere.
If you like the casual thing then keep at it. Just don't hold any hope that things will change.
2007-02-11 21:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by spamovision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just using you. the casual thing for a month or two is ok, 5 months though?? cmon, you have got to be better than that. go find someone that really cares. seriously.
2007-02-11 21:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know that there isn't going to be anything other then sex.
You have to make the call. If you want more he's not going to give more so then move on
2007-02-11 21:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5mo is plenty of time for each person to make up their mind as to where they want things to go next. He sounds like he has made up his mind for one reason or another. If you are unhappy with it, call it off! Who knows, once you do, he might see what he is missing and go after you.
2007-02-11 21:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop it...and here's why...If you're already giving him everything he wants without a commitment, you'll never get more from this guy. You're nothing more than a booty call for him now. If you want more, you'll have to move on.
2007-02-11 21:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop girl it sounds like trouble emotionally been there done that and got an std no good
2007-02-11 21:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it.... your getting too attached and he seems like he is not gonna want anything more.. so instead of getting your heart broken find someone who shares your feeling and wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him
2007-02-11 21:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋