This is a serious question. So please don't make fun.
If I make out with a guy I often orgasm before my pants even come off. I always try to pretend nothing is happening because I am embarassed. Sometimes I think it is obvious though. My eyes look watery and my neck flushes.
The only time I ever admitted what happened to a guy he laughed at me and thought I was lying. So now I just keep quiet. (even that is kinda hard to do)
I also recently had one when I got off the bike at the gym. Standing there in the middle of a room. It's really not funny. I am being serious. I will never get on that bike again.
Sometimes I will be hard at work at my desk in my office and not even thinking about sex and it hits me like a huge wave.
Is this really odd? I have always been this way since like 16. And I wouldn't dare ask anyone I know. I think I would die trying to explain to my doctor.
2007-02-11 13:56:55 · 24 answers · asked by Esperenza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a serious situation, and the guy that made fun was a jerk. I know its empbarrassing, for you to have an orgasm at a non sexual moment, sounds like you are very well intune with yourself, think about the opposite feeling of those who cannot orgasm at all, and consider yourself blessed ,albeit not when you want it. I say go with it, hon. Just learn how to control your outward look when its happening. Turn it into a laugh reaction perhaps like when you think of something funny, and just smile and giggle a bit and if anyone asks say "oh nothing" and go on. i hope that helps even a litle bit.
If its really really bothersome please do have the courage to talk to you doctor about it, your doctor is suposed to be the most confident "friend" that you can have, your privacay is assured as to what you tell him/her. If it is a guy doc then switch to a female , maybe that will make you feel better and open up to her, you may even feel better because she might can possibly relate. So your getting girl talk time with professional advise also.
2007-02-11 14:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by graycherubs3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually this is a medical condition haha. There are a few things that could cause this from what I remember of working at an OBGYN. You could have an enlarged clitoris so it's easily stimulated, or there's another thing i can't remember what it's called that is a chemical reaction which makes you orgasm. Most people see it as a blessing :D if it's a problem you may want to see a dr, i think that an inhibitor like a mild antianxiety or depression med will slow it down and make it closer to a normal woman.
Good luck :)
2007-02-11 14:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex gf of mine was a little like this. Butt it only happened if she was touched in a sexual way by a guy. Even if it was just a kiss. I thought it was cool. Knowing that by me just kissing her, made her orgasm. However once we started having sex, she had an awesome orgasm. This is when she realized that what was happening to her for years ,which she considered an orgasm, was just her getting excited by touching a man. Much like many guys will get an erection kissing a girl. We went out for about 4 years, and trust me , she was one of the better sex pardners i ever had .
2007-02-11 14:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sooo wish I was you!!!! I am currently someone that is having trouble in that area. Anyway....If you feel that this is a for real problem, then you should talk to a neurologist. I was watching Grey's Anatomy (Season 2 Episode 18 "Yesterday") and there was a girl that had orgasims similar to what you are describing and there was a problem... Check it out.....
2007-02-11 14:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by scared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor is the best person to talk to about this she will give you the best advice on it, Have u tried learning to control it? Thru masturbation. They are different ways, check medical site and sex therapy sites to help you. But plz go to the doctor she will be the best help, good luck with it, i hope it all works out.
2007-02-11 14:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kailed w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woah! you are lucky!!! (i know you are really not, but whoa!!). I have never heard of this, Talk to your gynocologist. They are used to hearing about this sort of thing. Believe me, they have heard it all and will not think anything. If you dont have a woman gyn, find one. Sometimes they are easier to talk to about embarassing things. Also you can try the website goaskalice.com she answers sex and health questions.
2007-02-11 14:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by San Diego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that.
You just a super sensual women.
I use to have a girl friend that was like this and it was great. She would " win " about 10 to 15 times for my one and it was awesome
2007-02-11 14:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn!! i wish i had your problem. ive only orgasmed like MAYBE 10 times in the past 2 1/2 years ive been with my guy. but do get that looked at, it might be a safety hazzard, like driving down the road and that happens. wow, damn. lucky *****
2007-02-11 14:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by christopher_austins_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is odd and you should explain it to your female gynocologist for reference. If it feels good, I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. But if it's embarrassing or uncomfortable, by all means, talk to some medical person.
2007-02-11 14:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nothing to be embarrassed about. Talk to a therapist. Men and women both ejaculate prematurely. I'd say enjoy it, you're only young once. Hey, I do it too.
2007-02-11 14:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋