Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

how do i handle the fact that my mom's boyfriend is a complete jerk and she jut got divorced over the summer. he has 2 kids that are kool but he is totally ruining our family and his family. coming from the 2 kids of both of the parents! the kids cannot live with any other family no family lives in the town and we are miserable! WE have already talking to the parents but they like eachother too much they are always texting and calling eachother and are not having time for us(the kids) we are feeling neglected. we have tried making there lifes miserable(not working) tried making them feel uncomfortable(not working) HELP please give us good advice

2007-02-11 13:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by amanda(: 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy named Matt but I'm not sure if he likes me. Yesterday I saw him and we were talking andf he took a picture of me for the card to rent movies. Anyways I was talking to him about how bad my G1 picture is and he said it can't be that bad. Then he said that the picture that he took of me isn't bad at all. Then as I was leaving he said "see ya later" in a soft tone. Does he like me?

2007-02-11 13:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 13:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by falloutboygirl_13 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i are great.. but when we are around his babys mom he acts like i dont exist .. he calls her while he is at work .. we end up at their house 90 percent of the time.. for some reason i get this strange feeling that he hasnt let go of her completely yet.. and this girl is a certafied ho.. and just to piss me off she calls him and text his phone. i dont put it past her trying to sleep with him.. and to be honest i dont think my husband could tell her no.... i am completely lost.. i need some advice.. has anyone been through this b4?

2007-02-11 13:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by angeleyes468 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for the past 6 yrs to a beautiful asian lady who has no desire for intimacy. She will not allow me to hold her, hug her, kiss her, make love....nothing. She says that if I want that, then get it on the corner and don't bring it home. She rarely says she loves me, usually I say it and with no response. When asked, she says she does but her actions tell me different. We have not been intimate for about 3 yrs now and I am not sure which way to go now. It seems she is more concerned about money and how much is in her account than our relationship....need help? We sleep in the same bed but she will not allow me to touch her, not even her arm. She sleeps with a blanket between us, am I wrong in assuming it may be over?

2007-02-11 13:50:37 · 21 answers · asked by no love for me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A week or two before Sadie's, this girl gave me mixed signals. She always stared at me and twirl her hair and smile, but every time I talk to her, she sometimes blushes and smiles a lot. But couple nights before Sadie's dance, she goes and asks another guy out. I'm so confused!!! Does she like me or not? Is she trying to make me jealous or is she a tease? What should I do?

2007-02-11 13:50:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom left a mnth aftr i turned 17.I dropped her off at the airport and she was off 2 get married She said she wanted 2 be alone and happy w/ "Him" and it hurt tht she said that i had no say. At age 19 I got my own place and was happy mom askd me 2 pick up my bro from rehab and let him chill with me. My bro and her started tlking a lot and she strted telling me wht 2 do in my own house and tht i shldn't be hanging out w/ my frnd cus he's gay:he shldn't tell my bro wht 2 do. My frnd paid bills my it was his apt as well. She strted yelling i cldn't takeit i let go. I said evrythng i had wnted 2 tell her 4 the lngest time: she was selfish for leaving!etc.Evr sense thn we hvn't heard 4m each other. Tht was in Sept.06 it is now Feb 07 I told her i cnt take it bck but i apoligize 4 my language. I love my stepdad and he makes her happy she deserves it, but y can't she let me b me? How can i tell her that what she did was wrng and it hurt? Shld i forgive her? Shld she forgive me?

2007-02-11 13:50:35 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole*479 1 in Family

They seem to like each other alot but i also like him and if what every one tells me that he likes me is true, well i am so confused! what should i do?

2007-02-11 13:50:07 · 4 answers · asked by that_goofy_blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

I know i have posted this once a long time ago and a few times today and i didn't get many responses but i felt i'd post it again to see what you all though....do you find this dumb?

As a sophomore in college i remember this game we used to play in gym class with this giant rainbow colored sheet. We'd all life it up and run under it and stuff. I'm sure other's of you remember this activity...anyway apparently....they now banned this activity from elementary school gym classes because it's to "violent" my friend wants to become a physical education teacher so this is how i found this out..I'm surprised. I also heard dodge ball was banned from some schools as well as tug of war and tag!! Does anyone else think this is in any way STUPID? what are they going to ban next....breathing!

2007-02-11 13:49:50 · 6 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Singles & Dating

Sure they may be smokin hot when they are in thier 20's but when they hit 30 its like a brick wall. What then? Is marriage all they have to look foward to at this point?

2007-02-11 13:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by Billy Bob D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Which one is more appealing? The first one or the second one?

Warning, adult content.

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2007-02-11 13:49:39 · 3 answers · asked by trinitybombshell 1 in Singles & Dating

How long should I be long suffering and wait? I dated my neighbor for 1.5 years. I was madly in love. I moved 1 mile away and in April 06, one week after moving he had accepted my marriage proposal. The next week he said he had jumped the gun. After that he wouldn't even barely talk to me or return my calls. He always said he was too busy to see me. Heart broken, I prayed every day for 5 months that he would come back to me and I never pursued him or called him. If he was going to come back, it would have to be on his own will. I started dating others, and just after I was feeling over him he contacted me and we dated again and I fell in love. Dating only few months, he tells me he had a one night stand, will be having a baby, the womans too different, won't marry her as two wrongs don't make a right. Now again he tells me he's too busy, not to tell him sweet things as it's too much pressure. He spends his free time with the other woman. I'm insanely jealous. How long to wait?

2007-02-11 13:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by heartache 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl have been going out since 1-11-07, though she's on my mind night and day. I wonder, is she okay whats she doing, does she miss me as much as I miss her? I trust her, I'm just worried for her. Also, I always talk about what I'm going to get her, and it sounds really romantic. I have a different side than wrestling, football season, and reptiles though when I show my side that has my love, no0o0o0one takes me serious, though I am. Am i changing myself for her? She says she loves when I kiss and hug her, though everyone else says "you do this and that too much she probably feels uncomfortable." Is their a limit were most girls get weird feeling. I also like buying her stuff that she want's (she doesn't ask me, I know she'd like it). Am I ok? Am I changing myself for her? Am I taking this to serious? I love her sooo much and I only want the best for her.
Thanks and remember, best answer=10 points
Nick

2007-02-11 13:49:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with this girl for three months, and she talks about having sex all the time and how she wants to do it, and she always says stuff, like guess ull have to wait till tomarow, and she gets me all worked up and gets me ready to have sex, but the next day, she day, we start messing around, but she never wants to have sex, is she teasing me???? and what does it mean???

2007-02-11 13:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by what ever you want it to be 1 in Singles & Dating

I have friends that run the full spectrum of personalities, but I never really feel like I fit in anywhere. I'm usually up for anything that makes me non-bored for at least five minutes, so I admit that I've probably been a bit foolish. I don't know how we're friends because I don't really have a lot in common with most of them. I'd rather play pool than video games, go bowling than to a Magic tournament, rather watch talk shows or soaps than anime. I guess you get the picture. In short, I'm guess I'm fairly normal, but I've got no idea how to talk to most people. Any ideas?

2007-02-11 13:48:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Now most of you females have heard and dealt with guys who dont trust you, and who are insecure.

How do you feel about a guy who doesnt show any sign of distrust.
And sort of lets you do what you want.

Like normally, your boyfriend would have a fit if you went a club or danced with another guy. And most of the time females are tryna get that reaction.

How would you respond if he didnt, and payed it no mind.

2007-02-11 13:48:09 · 10 answers · asked by ThePurebred 2 in Singles & Dating

People say they love me but I don't really understand what they mean. I think I love people but I don't reall know what it is to love. So what does it mean to love? How does it feel? How is it different from just like? How do I know it's love and not lust or infatuation?

2007-02-11 13:47:22 · 1 answers · asked by Bob 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-11 13:47:02 · 2 answers · asked by vickielynnperry 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married about 3 weeks after I have a baby. He and his fiance are saying no kids under 18 are allowed to come because they are having the wedding filmed. It is in a different town than where we are from so we have to stay in a hotel. They want me to leave the newborn baby with a unfamiliar babysiter. Are we being unreasonable when we say we will not come unless we can bring the baby? We have said we will do everything in our power to prevent the baby from crying and my husband will leave the church if he starts to cry. What else can we do? This isn't just any baby this is my brother's first nephew and a big part of me. This is tearing me apart and I want to make a smart decision.

2007-02-11 13:46:41 · 31 answers · asked by Ambre B 3 in Weddings

Alright so this guy I like is going to call me in like 10 minutes. And I think he likes me. I've known him since kindergarden. Aaaaaaaand I need ideas on what to talk about. PLEASE. I'm FREAKING OUT.

2007-02-11 13:46:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel we are good for each other & that he's the one for me .....no rude comments

2007-02-11 13:46:12 · 3 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

The mojority of people that i know "girls" are like worry about thier appearence more than anything.... word to the rise we guys don't really care about how you look well sometimes as long as you females are being real with your self you will look pretty.

2007-02-11 13:44:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some random topics that I could put a smile on a girl's face with? When I asked this before, people said stuff like compliment her. I know all that. I mean really random. Like something so stupid that she'll have no choice but to laugh and continue the conversation (like the terrible plight of the one-legged duck....he can only swim in a circle).

Please don't say talk about her interests or anything like that, that's not my question! And try to stay away from jokes.

2007-02-11 13:44:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay im 14 and want to know if this is a good vday gift that i got my boyfriend. i got him a....
white bear with his and my name in a heart
a box of chocolates
and a card

is this good? will here like it

2007-02-11 13:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 13:43:10 · 17 answers · asked by kelley k 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to know if i am able to visit or call or send her somthing,
this is very devastating to me,
can somone please at least tell me somthing about group homes!
what do they do there?

2007-02-11 13:42:32 · 8 answers · asked by aliciakatherine. 2 in Friends

There's one of my old teachers that stands beside my current teacher in the halls between classes that i talk to. Used to my current teacher would just do a half smile and look elsewhere. Now she smiles really big, laughs when i say the simplest thing, and can't take her eyes off of me! I'm not imagining anything, I've seen it happen. She's also kinda gettin into my business and see what I do. I assist for her and all, and she knows I'm not doing anything bad, but she always like to check up on it before she gives me something to grade. Why does she act like this? P.S. I'M A GIRL

2007-02-11 13:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-02-11 13:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he took his wedding band off..and said he would but it back on when he thought things were better..it's been 2 months...but he still says he does not know what will happen in a few months from now..he is still living with his mom and dad and stops at the house every day to see the kids and get his mail. If he is not coming home wouldnt he of changed his address and taken all of his things? and yes he is still paying 90% of the bills, but also takes my check every other week....

2007-02-11 13:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just met that nice lady in a club and i just first decided to complement her . she thanked me and its like she agreed to dance me , then its like my lips got tied and i couldnt say any word until she eventually left. I just wish to know the best way the girls like to be approached and how to get them know that you not that kind of guys who wanted to play . I wanna show my real intention for love but iam completely mute when it comes to express that
. I WILL APRECIATE if you got a particular WORDS that would help on that from the first instant when you recognize the potential girl until she get on with you

2007-02-11 13:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating