how do i handle the fact that my mom's boyfriend is a complete jerk and she jut got divorced over the summer. he has 2 kids that are kool but he is totally ruining our family and his family. coming from the 2 kids of both of the parents! the kids cannot live with any other family no family lives in the town and we are miserable! WE have already talking to the parents but they like eachother too much they are always texting and calling eachother and are not having time for us(the kids) we are feeling neglected. we have tried making there lifes miserable(not working) tried making them feel uncomfortable(not working) HELP please give us good advice
2007-02-11 13:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by amanda(: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go with it and except it.
You are being selfish by doing what you have been doing.
2007-02-11 13:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how your mom's boyfriend is wrecking all your lives. Is this man drinking, doing drugs or abusing all of you? Or is he taking some control as man of the house and you guys can't get away with as much as if any of you were just with your moms. I don't envy any of you, having to go through 2 divorces and you mother replacing your father so soon after all of this. It's not easy trying to set up a whole new family and the insecurity all of you must feel. All of you could use some family counseling, short of not being able to communicate well with your parents you might consider talking to another adult such as a favorite teacher, aunt or uncle, grandparents, the school counselor. You can't control the adults, you won't be satisfied with the results. Hopefully with speaking to another adult may help you feel better.
2007-02-11 22:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if all you kids stuck together and try to give it your best shot at being a combined family you might make a go of it ,you all have to get used to each other living in the same home.
2007-02-11 22:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by masie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have no control over your parents - just try to make the best of the situation.
2007-02-11 21:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit them both down together and explain to them how you feel and how can you resolve the issues that are causing you to have this delimma. and maybe something good will come out of this.
2007-02-11 21:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by BRYAN L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest that you learn how to tolerate the situation.
2007-02-11 22:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask to live with your dad
2007-02-11 21:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call DCFS.
2007-02-11 21:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋