My husband and i are great.. but when we are around his babys mom he acts like i dont exist .. he calls her while he is at work .. we end up at their house 90 percent of the time.. for some reason i get this strange feeling that he hasnt let go of her completely yet.. and this girl is a certafied ho.. and just to piss me off she calls him and text his phone. i dont put it past her trying to sleep with him.. and to be honest i dont think my husband could tell her no.... i am completely lost.. i need some advice.. has anyone been through this b4?
2007-02-11 13:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by angeleyes468 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't sound like he is putting you first. Have a serious talk with him. Tell him that you are not willing to be treated like this. Ask him if he is willing to work on your marriage by coming up with a compromise.
Then suggest that he only spend a set amount of time per week talking to or visiting with his ex. That he is not to respond to her calls or texts unless it is an emergency with his child. If he is not willing to put any effort into making you feel happier, then you will have to decide what action you're going to take. You might try a marriage counselor, if he'll agree to go.
Good Luck!
2007-02-11 15:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to just ditch him and get on with your life.. life is too short to be on the end of a loosing relationship.. get out of it keep going enjoy your life forget him and travel see the world and love yourself and leave him alone and let him and his babies mother get together. .
2007-02-12 03:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think he let go.what you need to tell him. is that you are sick and tired of the crap. let him know its got stop and now. or you will leave him. all its going to be like this for ever. you will fighting her and him. think about it.
2007-02-11 23:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to communicate what you are feeling to your husband.
2007-02-11 22:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋