How long should I be long suffering and wait? I dated my neighbor for 1.5 years. I was madly in love. I moved 1 mile away and in April 06, one week after moving he had accepted my marriage proposal. The next week he said he had jumped the gun. After that he wouldn't even barely talk to me or return my calls. He always said he was too busy to see me. Heart broken, I prayed every day for 5 months that he would come back to me and I never pursued him or called him. If he was going to come back, it would have to be on his own will. I started dating others, and just after I was feeling over him he contacted me and we dated again and I fell in love. Dating only few months, he tells me he had a one night stand, will be having a baby, the womans too different, won't marry her as two wrongs don't make a right. Now again he tells me he's too busy, not to tell him sweet things as it's too much pressure. He spends his free time with the other woman. I'm insanely jealous. How long to wait?
2007-02-11 13:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by heartache 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that sux so bad!!! damn those assholes. move on even tho its gonna rip out your heart. i did it but i was the one pregnant and he was the one that went to the other woman when he found out. but he did come to his senses and i gave him another chance, but the whole time that he was with her and i was up late at nite with heart burn and a babies foot in my ribcage, it was hell AT FIRST but then with each day, it got a little easier to let him go. eventually i got to the point where i didn't give a damn if he was around or not, im thankful now that he is, but your guy made a choice, and now he has to pay the consequences for that choice. dont let him f*ck with you mind or heart anymore and let him go. don't let him come back to you once that baby is born and get you pregnant, you sound like you deserve better than that. im sorry, start thinkingand looking out for yourself now and dont worry about him, someone's gonna come along one day and sweep you off your feet and make you forget about him, until then hold on!!!
2007-02-11 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by christopher_austins_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 05:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by dembinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what a story! stop waiting is all i can say. he's playing games with you and it's not fair. plus he's seeing other women. sounds like he's not as in to you as you are in to him. start dating other guys again. you'll find someone who truly wants to be with you.
2007-02-11 13:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by obliviona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop waiting now;guy is playing you
2007-02-11 13:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by keith s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋