My mom left a mnth aftr i turned 17.I dropped her off at the airport and she was off 2 get married She said she wanted 2 be alone and happy w/ "Him" and it hurt tht she said that i had no say. At age 19 I got my own place and was happy mom askd me 2 pick up my bro from rehab and let him chill with me. My bro and her started tlking a lot and she strted telling me wht 2 do in my own house and tht i shldn't be hanging out w/ my frnd cus he's gay:he shldn't tell my bro wht 2 do. My frnd paid bills my it was his apt as well. She strted yelling i cldn't takeit i let go. I said evrythng i had wnted 2 tell her 4 the lngest time: she was selfish for leaving!etc.Evr sense thn we hvn't heard 4m each other. Tht was in Sept.06 it is now Feb 07 I told her i cnt take it bck but i apoligize 4 my language. I love my stepdad and he makes her happy she deserves it, but y can't she let me b me? How can i tell her that what she did was wrng and it hurt? Shld i forgive her? Shld she forgive me?
2007-02-11 13:50:35 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole*479 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There have been other arguements and i always apoligize 1st just 2 clear the air. Every time i do its like i feed the fires 4 gossip she tells everyone and its not right. My entire family knows about are fight and she told them i started it which is a lie. She never once stepped foot into my apt or told me she was proud. My brothers are druggies and she does more to help them its stupid. I love my friends and they have done so much for me and she hates them. She wont even tell me she loves me i have to ask her. She said she wasnt' brought up that way, yet she always tells my cousins she loves them What the hell is that? I'm tired of never being good enough. I honestly think she should apoligize and woman up and come to her senses and admit what she did was horrible and wrong. I'm tired of being the bad one. I spent all my time worring and trying to make her happy and she went to far and well now i feel it's my turn.
2007-02-12 04:32:48 · update #1
You should tell her what she did hurt u n also tell her sry 4 what u said. While it is rite 4 ur mom to apoligize u cant just sit around and wait 4 it. You should just drop what she said because while we all wish that our parents never did the wrong thing n we could always count on them as we get older we relize that is not the case. Our parents are ppl just like us and they make mistakes too. It is not worth it to lose the relationship w. ur mom over a fight.
2007-02-11 14:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_stuff_0989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only read about half of this because I really can't understand what you are saying, but I think I get the gist of it...
I think your mom hurt you pretty badly. Just because they're parents doesn't make them right.
If I were you, I'd just forgive and forget this time... but you need to learn from this experience.
Call you mom up and tell her that what she did hurt you but you shouldn't have treated her like that and apologize. Don't be surprised if she doesn't apologize back... I woudln't expect it...
And in the future, you may just want to visit with her on holidays. Keep things casual and simple.
Good Luck.
2007-02-11 14:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, the subsequent time that your mum and dad get right into a controversy i'd interrupt i comprehend that's especially formidable and maximum folk may disagree yet, definite, it really is a shown actuality that your mum and dad cheated are they going to stay something else of there lives residing on each and each others fault even as they should be searching at there personal! you want to flow back inclusive of your husband and make issues artwork for your self sanity of not listening to all this negativity. allow you mom comprehend that she is in no position to be telling you a thanks to assist your marriage even as she will't even manage hers on a mature element. back, i comprehend that's may sound incorrect yet, honey you should face as a lot as your mom sometime she will't attempt this to you or your father and that i propose that you communicate inclusive of your father also about all of this. they ought to discover some position that they could artwork out countless those previous hurts there dealing with. dishonest is erroneous and that's incorrect on an same element not who did it first or very last they both did it! it quite is all that concerns. i quite wish this helped you and attempt to reconcile with you hubby.
2016-11-27 02:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn your spelling really sucks, your so hard to comprehend. Tell your Mom that your happy for her and like your step-dad, that you think she made an excellent choice in life, But, now it's your turn, and your life and your going to live it the way that you want to. That you know that you will probably make a few mistakes along the way, but your gonna do it your way. That she shouldn't be so judge mental against your friends, to keep her opinions to herself. Just give you the freedom and space to run your own life
2007-02-11 14:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋