please help How can I fix this with him? need alot of advice?

Question

i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel we are good for each other & that he's the one for me .....no rude comments

Answer 1

Its that time in your life when you need to settle down. Tell your friends to back off,explain how you feel,they should understand. iF They dont they arent worth your time. That guy,you could possibly spend the rest ofyour life with, you shouldnt let them come between yall. they arent going to be the ones alone,you are.

Answer 2

maybe you should talk to your friends and tell them how much he means to you. If they dont understand then maybe there not your real friends. It also seems really childish of your friends to keep doing this and they should mind their own business

Answer 3

you just need to tell people to stay out of your business this is your friends doing this to you and if you have to make new friends to replace the old ones then do it this is your life and you have to live it and somtimes we have to hurt peoples feelings .