I've always been told by women and men alike that I have good looks and most of the time they seem amazed I'm not as active with regard to dating. Throughout school I was on the quite side but by no means shy. Do women get intimidated by some men, aside from obvious reasons? I always seem to initiate conversation, and very rarely is it the other way around. Thanks for your help.
2007-02-11 13:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its the same wit me, ppl always compliment my looks but i almost never date either. i guess women do get intimidated by some men you cant approach all women the same way, like wen a guy jus randomly starts talking to me i usually think "why the f**k is this stranger talking to me?" idk, Id say use a different approach. and dont be thinking women are uncomfortable around you because if you keep thinkning that, thats all you're gonna get. trust me
2007-02-11 14:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by PAISA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your probably one of those unapproachable types of people, you either look mad or weird, no offense here, women are afraid to approach you because you look like you might KO someone or you look like you don't want company. If you say mean things or have a strange reputation if could be those too. I am intimidated by men from time to time, only the ones like I describe above.
2007-02-11 13:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women always want men to initiate conversations. They may dominate the conversation or barley add anything to it. But they almost never start discussions. The same with sexual intimacy.
2007-02-11 14:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men don't send off a friendly, charming or warm personality vibe...despite their good looks..Also quiet and good looking can sometimes be interpreted as uptight, stuck-up, cocky, or unapproachable.
ohh and most girls do ot initiate conversations anyways...we don't like to run the risk of rejection
2007-02-11 14:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by tara t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but nothing intimidates me, maybe you are seeing something that is not there. When you start your conversations with people what do you say? Maybe that is the problem.
2007-02-11 14:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Magical 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working there Steve Its hard to lure one in from the sea! Its all hard work but eventualley you might get one or she'll give you a few more hint's
2007-02-11 14:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl
2007-02-11 13:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to look a little insecure at times so you don't seem perfect. That would frustrate me to meet a perfect guy.
2007-02-11 14:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by hummmbucker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you suffer from 'too attractive to approach' syndrome.
Let them know you are available and interested (eye contact, LISTEN to them, smile, laugh, etc).
You have probably experienced 'too attractive to approach' syndrome in girls.
2007-02-11 14:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by For my next trick... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do people see u as approachable? Sometimes people mistake quiet for snotty, unfortunately.
2007-02-11 13:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋