Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

My best friend just broke up with her boyfriend and I wasn't exactly sure why she was so heartbroken until she told me that he was her 'first' She is emotionally attached and I don't know what to say to help her. Please help me with what to say to her to make her rocover.

Thank you in advanced!

2007-02-11 14:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well me and my boyfriend soon to be husban are trying to find some rings for the both of us with out spending to much money just for the time being we are going to up date latter to the bigger and better but we need something for the crimony you know something cuite but afferdable dose any one no any online stores we can vist?

2007-02-11 14:43:06 · 18 answers · asked by brownskin8670 1 in Weddings

I want to do some thing romantic for my man for valentines day because he works at night i and he wont get home till about 10ish i have planned to have rose petals and canldes all the way downt he hall way so when he opens the door thats what he will see. i just dont know what do do for a gife or any thing any ideas???

2007-02-11 14:42:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 14:41:45 · 16 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. well, this guy that liked me was annoying so i told him i dont like him and then he went to my friend and went out with her and then a dance she broke up with him and i made him cheer up then i started liking him and on friday him and his friend came up behind me and his friend was like 'ask her out, you like her' and he said 'no i dont i stopped' and then his friend was like 'would you go out with him if he asked you?' and i said idk and then he said 'would you go out with me if i asked you? im not sayin i do, just wondering' and i said i dont know and i sorta like them both
my friend said that its a sign that they do but i doubt it
whats your oppinion?

2007-02-11 14:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by Porky 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boy friend has been going out for 1 year and we love each other so much.We go to different schools. .But the first start of our relationship he cheated on me and I took him back on the day and that was when we were in the same school our school made him go to a different school with people who have angry problems .And the secound time he cheated was in his school was not really a cheating thing because he was taking a test and this girl at his school asked him out and he said no then she kept asking him out and then finally he said yes and it was in the middle of a test at the end of the day.And so then he told me and I told him he needs to pick so he did and he picked me.I did not believe him so I asked his friend and his friend said yes he broke up with the girl .Then a couple of days ago I was at home talking to my boy friend and he said he was going to a party which really was a dance and he went there and told his causen who is a good friend of mine that he was single.

2007-02-11 14:40:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In fact, it quite hurts me to know that everyone seems attached and I'm the one left without any guy by my side ~ it's totally embarrassing not to have boyfriend in this college life...

Therefore, what is the best activity a single can do while all the others happily enjoy being wined and dined by their lovers... other than watching TV all alone at home!


Sob...Sob...Sob... (T_T) please help me ~ I need your grace in answering this too... please don't come up with dumb answers and craps!



Plus, I'm 19 years old this year -- is it alright not to have any boyfriend until this stage of age...


Actually, I'm afraid of being a spinster ! ~

2007-02-11 14:39:30 · 16 answers · asked by PossumNight 3 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to get Honeymoon ideas, I am on the east coast and want to go somewhere great, but also be reasonable in my spending. The west coast is out because of the price of airfare. I was thinking of somewhere in the caribean,but I want somewhere romantic... Any ideas

2007-02-11 14:38:53 · 14 answers · asked by jkarrasch52 1 in Weddings

I still love my ex-fiance somewhere in my heart. You see, I was engaged to him at a young age:19. He never did me wrong, never hurt me in anyway, never cheated on, never dis-respected me. He was always generous (financially and emtionally) but I broke it off at age 23 because I wasn't happy with his personality. See, I'm outgoing, funny, hyper, life the party...he's a little more quiet, onlys speaks when being spoken to, etc. I cheated on him at 22 with this other guy. I'm now 24 and still with Todd (current bf). I cheated knowing it was wrong but did it because I felt really close to Todd. Todd and I are still together and we're completely compatable. The only problem is I"m still talking to my ex and am starting to miss him. Todd knew I was engaged but he knew he could keep me happier than my ex. I don't know what to do! My ex is so much more successfull now (really rich) and he's 26. Todd is 29 but still hasn't accomplished much. What's going to keep me happier??

2007-02-11 14:38:52 · 8 answers · asked by BrightLITE143 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy just said that he loves my smile when i laugh and i dont know what to say backkk

2007-02-11 14:38:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my guy friends told me that he liked me because i was kind off like a guy personality wise but am a cute looking chic?because i am laid back dont bi*ch or nag, never want to overly talk about feelings,play video games, enjoy sports, love food and am rarley moody.Should i take this as a compliement or an insult?

2007-02-11 14:38:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u c i like this girl and yadayada and she likes me.i know she wants to get together but shes 15 and im 16.and she has had sex with a 25 yr old.should that bother me or what.i dnt wnt a sexual relationship with her if we get together until im out of high school.any advise

2007-02-11 14:38:04 · 20 answers · asked by loyal 2 tha bone 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont know if i have to get him something? and if i do what should it be?

2007-02-11 14:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by kittytie 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't stop thinking, and even dreaming about him. I know, I know I'm barely a teenager, but I can't stop thinking of him. It's my crush. He's popular, I'm not. Even high school girls like him, (and we're in Elementry School). Well, mostly because he's new and British. And I'm chinese/canadian. Everybody's talking about his new crush, and whenever somebody mentions it I feel like I'm about to cry. I'm so dramatic. I asked him to the dance, and since w'ere okay friends he agreed for one dance. And trust me, the 'secret' crush is NOT me.

What's wrong with me? Why can't I be the blond popular girl that he likes?

Am I so weird? I can't get over him, I keep dreaming about him.

I'm 13 btw.

2007-02-11 14:37:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love to collect postcards ,especially from friend .
well what is something you like to collect

2007-02-11 14:36:36 · 27 answers · asked by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Nothing gross or intimate, just romantic and fun!

2007-02-11 14:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i felt like i could have been raped...what should i do..i m really angry...but he is apologising for what he did...he evn cried on the phone?

2007-02-11 14:35:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 14:34:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Haven't spoken those words to each other yet, but even if we are breaking up, I want him to know how much he's meant to me. Is it cruel for me to tell him?

2007-02-11 14:34:23 · 5 answers · asked by cocoanutt 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi girls.....I just want to know how do you like guys to approach you???....Well, I am a shy guy but lately I have been trying hard to talk to girls in college and ask them questions about lectures or something but they just answer the question and they dont talk more when they do that I try to ask them more questions (like what are you majoring in or something) and again the same thing happens......I am just so confused and I dont know what to do really when talking to girls??....Well, I like shy, smart girls so if you see my question just tell me and girls in general just give me some advice.....I am good looking as some of my friends say so I dont think it is about looks...Thanks

2007-02-11 14:34:15 · 15 answers · asked by CG 2 in Singles & Dating

He always shakes my desk to get my attention or something, after he does that i tell him "nock it off". Then he tells me "shhhhhhh"! I tell him "shhhh" back and then he calls me "potty mouth" and i didn't even tell him any bad words, all i said was "Shhhh". Does he like me or is he just being rude.

2007-02-11 14:34:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I "took a break" about four months ago. We were together for about nine months (We started dating last valentines day). We still see each every day, talk on the phone, kiss, and still say I love you to each other all the time. We both want to get back together, but she doesn't think it is what God wants for us right now. What can I do on Valentine's day to get her to want to be with me again? Any ideas??

We both wanted a "break" and now I want her back. When I talked about getting back together, she said God told her we can't right now. There was another guy she talked to like a month ago but they don't like each other anymore. She is very honest so we talked about all that. We both took the 14th off work this year to do something special, and so we would have the whole day together.

What can I do to get her back??? PLEASE HELP!

2007-02-11 14:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

hey fellas, i dont know, but sometimes im jzu feeling abit horny. so what kinds of erotica text / stories can you recommend to climax the feeling???? and no, i do not hv a bf and i dont want one-night stands :)

2007-02-11 14:33:55 · 9 answers · asked by nobodyknowsme™ 5 in Singles & Dating

tonight I was at the store buying some groceries for this week. I was trying to choose some bread that didn't have high fructose corn syrup in it, and I was reading many of the labels.

A man was next to me appearing to do the same thing. He seemed to be a little over six feet tall, slender but muscular build, bald with nice blue eyes, but what stood out was his smell: he smelled great! (I looooove a man that smells good!!).

Yeah, so, I smiled at him and he politely told me its hard to find healthy food or some such or thing (I didn't really care, as I was more interested in him), and I found myself very attracted to this guy.

Ladies, do you ever find a man who shaves his head to be attractive? Tonight I sure did! And it was nicely surprising :-)

2007-02-11 14:32:12 · 10 answers · asked by sophia 2 in Singles & Dating

My divorce decree states that my ex husband should be paying $606/month in child support for my 3 daughters that I have never received. Part of the reason I didn't enforce it was because he was in and out of jail for about a year. He has since gotten out of jail and moved back in the area so he "claims" to be closer to his girls which he doesn't see or even call. He calls me at work constantly seemingly more concerned about my life than the girls life. When I ask him why he hasn't called them like he has promised several times he says, "oh I'll call them now, or I'll call this weekend" and never does. I also asked him when was the last time he talked to his older son that he has with another woman and he laughed and said' "yesterday" this infuriated me that he can find time to talk to his son but not my girls. I feel I have been way to nice and its time to strip him of his parental rights or enforce the child support order.

2007-02-11 14:32:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife left last nov. she didn't just leave me, she left our son too. at first we where going to share custody. i had him for two weeks and then she was supposed to have him. the day before thanksgiving she called me and asked if i would take him permatnately. i of cource said yes. at first she called every other day to check up on him. she came to see him the week before christmas and that is the last time he has seen her. she was calling once a week, but she hasn't called him in almost three weeks. he is only two and i can tell he misses her. should i call her and have her talk to him. i love my son and i can't understand how she can keep from calling him or stand being away from him. if we never hear from her again what do i say to him when he asks how come mommy doesn't love him?

2007-02-11 14:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My other family members have walked downstairs and caught him doing it downstairs, gross, right?

2007-02-11 14:31:30 · 8 answers · asked by rach 2 in Friends

But you see each other like on a weekly basis.

2007-02-11 14:31:06 · 7 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Singles & Dating

Friday night my boyfriend and I got into an argument. We talked about it and sorted out the problem. He apologized for what he did (he admitted it was his fault and I agree with him).Things worked out nicely for us and ended up going to the movies.

However Im feeling kinda guilty since I yelled and scream at him like I never have before. Even if he doesn't show it I have a feeling he thinks differently of me now. Im not sure how to approach him with what I feel. Or should not say anything at all?

2007-02-11 14:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by badmab07 2 in Singles & Dating

and he just won't except it.
He keeps saying that he will not give up on me and why can't I give him another chance??
Our entire relationship he has controlled me and tried to make me into the person that he wants to spend his life with.
When we first got together I asked for his guidance to help me become a better person, but he took it to far and ended up taking advantage of my vunerability. Which is my fault as well.
Now I am all messed up and don't want to be with him anymore cos I really don't know how I feel.
How do I make him realise it is OVER without being totally mean.
Being nice and explaining how I feel is getting me no where

2007-02-11 14:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating