2007-02-11 14:34:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
changing* sorry
2007-02-11 14:41:16 · update #1
can't * sorry agan
2007-02-11 14:56:26 · update #2
First off,don't think its your fault its not.2nd I know what your going through.I have a family of 6 kids and my parents got divorced 2 years ago.FYI-not the best idea.But if you have good friends and family to rely on then its OK. I mean my mom is getting married and having another baby...with my step dad its hard ya but I don't look for the bad...I look for the good in everything.Life is hard suck it up and find the best in it.(Sorry if that sounded mean I didn't mean it to)
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2007-02-15 02:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica-Just Another Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard when your parents divorce, have you told them how its affecting you, you know its not your fault this is happening..
Some times you just cant be together anymore, and if they are constantly fighting its better they do this, as its not a good enviroment to bring you up in...
You know when you have friends and you cant get on with one in your group would you continue to put a front on for thesake of your other friends or would you be honest and speak out..
Thats how your parents are feeling, they still love you and will still be your mum and dad nothing can take that away from you..
I understand you may feel torn about who to live with, if thats an issue, no matter what you decide if it is neither one will hate you for your decsion...
You will still have contact with them both, and would you want them to live in misery with each other or have a home with one happy parent and the other would be happy also in the sense they kept you from a life of arguements..
you are their main priority even though it doesnt seem that way as you've said you want them to stay together, you will still have them both in your life you just wont all stay together..
Dont take it to hard sweety tell them how you feel, but dont put them on a guilt trip they are doing whats best...
Take care hun you will be ok
2007-02-11 15:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean you can NOT handle it? It's hard when parents divorce. Remind yourselfl that this is not your fault and that it's an adult thing...marriage and divorce. Whatever their problems are with each other, they both still love you very much. Try not to listen if they say bad things about each other, and stay with your mother and see your dad as often as possible. You can't possibly understand why they are divorcing now. But when you are older you will understand. In the meantime, love them both and try not to take sides.
2007-02-11 14:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.. I'm sorry. I know this is a really hard time for you. Have you talked to your parents and told them how you are feeling? I know it seems like they don't care but they do. My parents divorced when I was 16 and it tore me up. I thought if they loved me they would stay together. But as I got older I realized that it had nothing to do with me. They would fight all the time and my dad cheated and my mom would catch him and so she ended up leaving him. I never changed how I felt as far as wishing they were still together. I always felt that. But I can tell you this when my father died he was still in love with my mother and regreted everything he had ever done. I use to talk to my dad all the time about it and he helped me so much. I had to tell my mother at one point to quit talking bad about my dad that no matter what he did to her he was still my dad and I loved him. So I think you should pick the one that you feel is most tender and will listen and talk to that one and don't hold back how you feel. Try it. My heart goes out to you.
2007-02-11 14:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents divorced when I was very young, too. It's a very hard thing to go through. I had to learn that none of it was my fault. Continue to be yourself, do the things you like to do, enjoy the time you get to spend with your parents and your friends. Keep busy and build your own life in constructive ways. Good luck.
2007-02-11 14:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer an entire sentence, and it truly is spelled take care of with a lowercase h. ok it says that you're an 11 twelve months old lady who mothers and fathers are divorcing and also you could take care of it. ok so that you could take care of it. ok it says that you're already replacing. replacing what? What do you opt for help with in case you could take care of it?
2016-11-27 02:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello gal.. try to find more friends to seek comfort in, or ur cousins or relatives, all right?? i went through all these too. my parents divorced when i was 6. and i went through a hard time when i matured more intellectually at 11, to understand more. luckily i had a strong group of friends.. now i'm 19. do you need someone to talk to? i'm here honey :)
2007-02-11 14:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyknowsme™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy u have two parents that love u they r most likely splitting for the best my parents split when i was 4 i remember everything it made me so sad and now i sometimes go weeks without seeing him even when im at his house and im 14 i know how u feel
2007-02-11 14:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by female football player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember its not your fault. just understand that nothing goes the way you want it. dont let it go to your head,then youl might do something stupid.dont resourt to drugs!!!!!! it will mess you up!!! and make things way worse
2007-02-11 14:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by loyal 2 tha bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first learn how to spell then get back with us.
2007-02-11 14:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋