My girlfriend and I "took a break" about four months ago. We were together for about nine months (We started dating last valentines day). We still see each every day, talk on the phone, kiss, and still say I love you to each other all the time. We both want to get back together, but she doesn't think it is what God wants for us right now. What can I do on Valentine's day to get her to want to be with me again? Any ideas??
We both wanted a "break" and now I want her back. When I talked about getting back together, she said God told her we can't right now. There was another guy she talked to like a month ago but they don't like each other anymore. She is very honest so we talked about all that. We both took the 14th off work this year to do something special, and so we would have the whole day together.
What can I do to get her back??? PLEASE HELP!
2007-02-11 14:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was planning on dinner at a nice resturant, a few nice gifts (A Vera Bradley purse she wants, a bottle of purfume she wants, some flowers, and a bear I made for her at build-a-bear), and taking her up to the top of a mountain with some blankets and maybe some music, and just sitting on the back of my truck talking and looking at the stars or something. Is it hopeless? What should I do?
2007-02-11 14:34:59 · update #1
Well she said the God and she said she feels guilty about being with me when she's in church. (Because I cuss, and stuff like that, and because I am the first guy she has messed around with other then kissing) Yeah this would of also been our one year anniversary, so I'm trying to go all out. She got me a bunch of stuff too.
2007-02-11 14:48:27 · update #2
Its different because I want to be with her. I don't want her kissin all over me and me thinkin she has feelings for me then she go for some other guy. I'm just as confused as everyone else
2007-02-11 14:55:32 · update #3
she just wants to have the option of messing around w other people
2007-02-11 14:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't do much. WHY does she think God told her you can't right now? Did God tell her it was ok to be talking to another guy as recently as a month ago? Do you believe all of this?
If the two of you are meant to be, you will find yourselves back together. Don't make her feel pressured., take your time..just be yourself and don't lavish her with gifts. It's only Valentine's Day, nothing more, nothing less. Be reasonable about it. Material things will NOT win her heart. Your personality,understanding, and caring will do more good.
2007-02-11 22:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still kiss and all that, how is that different from being in a relationship? I don't understand. God approves of this girl spending time with you, kissing you, and saying I love you but you can't call that a relationship? I'm confused.
2007-02-11 22:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello???? If she is telling you that God is telling her to keep her distance, she has some issues and you are wasting your time. She is trying to tell you nicely that it's over, so she is blaming God. God isn't talking to her, but if she is hearing him.... hmmm maybe schizophrenia... Anyhow, move on with your life and forget her, she's history, she just hasn't been able to find a way to tell you yet.
2007-02-11 22:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you really made her a bear, yourself ?. Waow.
Maybe, you won't get back together inmediately, but she'll apreciate all this stuff.
2007-02-11 22:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead
2007-02-11 22:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋