Me and my boy friend has been going out for 1 year and we love each other so much.We go to different schools. .But the first start of our relationship he cheated on me and I took him back on the day and that was when we were in the same school our school made him go to a different school with people who have angry problems .And the secound time he cheated was in his school was not really a cheating thing because he was taking a test and this girl at his school asked him out and he said no then she kept asking him out and then finally he said yes and it was in the middle of a test at the end of the day.And so then he told me and I told him he needs to pick so he did and he picked me.I did not believe him so I asked his friend and his friend said yes he broke up with the girl .Then a couple of days ago I was at home talking to my boy friend and he said he was going to a party which really was a dance and he went there and told his causen who is a good friend of mine that he was single.
2007-02-11 14:40:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Move on girl!
2007-02-11 14:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by nd721 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's the thing. It's hard to keep a long-distance relationship going. Different schools is hard because you don't see each other every day. So, maybe you shouldn't be exclusive at this point. Just date when you can and date others, too.
If this doesn't work for you, then you probably should just find another guy. When you are older and out of school, though, you will need to have enough self confidence to know you deserve a loyal and non-cheating guy. If he cheats on you and is sorry, you forgive him once. The second time, he's out of your life. You can do much better and you should try to do just that. You may want this guy, but how can you really love someone who doesn't respect you enough not to cheat on you?
2007-02-11 14:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is hard to say what you should do but dont let him think it is okay to keep cheating if he dose love you he will stop I been thought the same thing with my boy friend the secound time he cheated I left and made my mind up that no matter how much I loved him I could not let him keep hurting me a week later I answered his call only to herar him say he was sorry a thousand times I took his word took him back and now were ready to get married deep in your heart you no if hes gonna stop if he dosent trust and belive their is someone who will be with only you respect you and love you trust is every thing when its lost its had to get back and hes not macking it any eazyer so set him free and see what happens
2007-02-11 15:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by brownskin8670 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he wants to be your boyfriend when it's good for him and then not when ever he wants to go out with someone else. But really, as young as you guys are, you should date each other and other people if you want. That's what he's doing anyway and it would be better for you because you could do it too. I bet if you told him that he might change his tune. Start considering the idea of opening yourself up to new guys...you're really too young to be that serious about anyone. And i'd say that is what your boyfriend is thinking too.
2007-02-11 14:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lying is NEVER good, and cheating is not acceptable in any relationship. You've had the experience with his cheating on 3 occasions, not to mention the lies. Unless you can trust him, your relationship is extremely rocky at best. It it were me, I'd be telling him to find someone else, because you deserve better than him.
2007-02-11 14:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you must be young,so in my opinion- dont you think you deserve better? He knows he can cheat & get away w/it. He will not change. I would walk away & find someone I could trust. I know it will be hard but I promise it will get better. There is someone out there who wont treat you badly. You deserve better-HONEST-p.s. I f he really loved you he would not have cheated to start with.
2007-02-11 14:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say u need to move on. It will be hard but this guy sounds a little sketchy and not too sure of what he wants. Find someone who will treat u with the respect u deserve.
2007-02-11 14:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by petitfleur_ca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your B/F is a cheater. People dont change, and he will always want to cheat even if he is not. Its hard when you love someone but what you need to do is break it off. It sucks but its better then you getting played.
2007-02-11 14:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump him if i was you i know you love him but there is someone out there that is better for you becasue with that second girl he could have said no and that he has a gf and ignored her and at the dance saying he was single that just isn't right move on girl you can find someone better who well tell people that you are his girl
2007-02-11 14:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Darcel R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on. I'm positive u are a strong women and deserve someone that treats u with respects and truly cares for u. u don't someone who is just going to use u. Good luck.
2007-02-11 14:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is a liar and a cheater so find a guy that will be true to you and that loves you 100%. Your suspicions are telling you the truth. It is time to move on.
2007-02-11 14:51:30 · answer #11 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋