Friday night my boyfriend and I got into an argument. We talked about it and sorted out the problem. He apologized for what he did (he admitted it was his fault and I agree with him).Things worked out nicely for us and ended up going to the movies.
However Im feeling kinda guilty since I yelled and scream at him like I never have before. Even if he doesn't show it I have a feeling he thinks differently of me now. Im not sure how to approach him with what I feel. Or should not say anything at all?
2007-02-11 14:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by badmab07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already showed a side of you that is distasteful--yelling and screaming is a loss of control--usually over something small---even though you thought it was a big deal. Kids just don't know how to communicate---and you two are probably over--just a matter of time until he finds someone who isn't going to react the way you did. Sort of forces or scares a person when you yell and act like a child....so you better change--let it go and do not do it again--learn to communicate like an adult--he should appreciate that. How would you feel if he were screaming at you all the time?? You wouldn't think that it was so good--so see the issue for what it is. Good luck
2007-02-11 14:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let him know that you realize yelling and screaming was not the most adult or constructive way to get your point across, no matter who was in the wrong, and that you're glad that you were eventually able to talk things out like reasonable human beings, then leave it at that. Try not to scream at him in the future, and remember to expect the same treatment from him!
2007-02-11 22:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him about it. but like casually just bring it up in conversation.like be like hey honey im sorry for yelling at you too much when we had that argument (you oculd restate it differently but you get the point) and i just wanted to be sure that we're still cool ( or whatever) honesty and forgiveness are a couple of the building blocks for a healthy relationship so dont hold back
2007-02-11 22:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you're not upset that you yelled but rather what you yelled. If you feel bad about anything you may have said, apologize.
2007-02-11 22:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him for dinner or movie and you should be fine , but next time try to control yourself because after that there might not be next time , but if he really loves you he would be back . Stay in control all the time and smile , life is too short to worry about little thinks
2007-02-11 22:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetely apologize for the way you behaved/acted or things that you had said. You obviously were hurt or upset by something he had said or done and at the time that is how you expressed it.
2007-02-11 22:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Charlotte Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him that you are also sorry for yelling at him.
2007-02-11 22:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by *~*crazy hair 14*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just say "hey honey, im sorry for earlier.."
2007-02-11 22:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋