I still love my ex-fiance somewhere in my heart. You see, I was engaged to him at a young age:19. He never did me wrong, never hurt me in anyway, never cheated on, never dis-respected me. He was always generous (financially and emtionally) but I broke it off at age 23 because I wasn't happy with his personality. See, I'm outgoing, funny, hyper, life the party...he's a little more quiet, onlys speaks when being spoken to, etc. I cheated on him at 22 with this other guy. I'm now 24 and still with Todd (current bf). I cheated knowing it was wrong but did it because I felt really close to Todd. Todd and I are still together and we're completely compatable. The only problem is I"m still talking to my ex and am starting to miss him. Todd knew I was engaged but he knew he could keep me happier than my ex. I don't know what to do! My ex is so much more successfull now (really rich) and he's 26. Todd is 29 but still hasn't accomplished much. What's going to keep me happier??
2007-02-11 14:38:52 · 8 answers · asked by BrightLITE143 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You f**ked up when you cheated! That's about the bottom line and it sounds like Todd doesn't have the money that your ex has and you are starting to miss that portion of it. If I was your ex at this current point in time, I wouldn't take you back because you knowingly cheated and didn't find ways to prevent it from happening. Who's to say that Todd isn't going to find himself something more appealing to him when the time is right? You need to stop talking to your ex as it will eat you up more and more and lead you to cheating on Todd.
2007-02-11 14:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well finances can only make you secure in that way. This is a matter of the heart and its what you need. Ask yourself what do you need, if you cheated the first time because you thought something was missing, then why are you questioning yourself again? You have to be compantible, in love have great communication and do what your heart is telling you not what seems logically correct. Love is the tell all tale, if you love Todd why would you even consider your x, has he changed or will he fall back to his old ways again, most people over the course of their lives change very little. Sit down and weight the pro's and con's of each one, then ask your heart what it really wants. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 14:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that two people who are together last longer when they compliment eachother, not reflect eachother. I think that Todd will keep you happy for a time, but you will soon get tired of him, because he is just like you. I think you would have done best staying with the fiance, not because he is rich, but because he treated you right and he could be your retreat from the rest of the world.
2007-02-11 14:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not really about the love, but more about the money! If it's just about the money go get it, but you will regret not going after love. Maybe the love is with the the ex, don't put him down just cause he isn't the life of the party. Quiet people need love too. If it is just about money I hope you go back to your ex and he tells you to hit the street.
2007-02-11 14:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Big Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself that your exes personality was not for you. Money is not going to make you happy, true love will.
2007-02-11 14:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your ex and apologise
2007-02-11 14:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-02-11 14:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by afireinsidexxx77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋