Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

so my brother(17) doesnt really live at home he comes on passes on weekends and spends the night.so thats the only time i get to spend time w/him.i go to school full time and my bf(21) works full-t ime so i only get to see him for a lil'on Mon. wed. or fridays. when he comes over he takes long naps @ my house & when he wakes up he has "to go" b/c he needs to get his sleep. so its only on weekends when i get to see him.now my dad is always pressuring me to invite my bro over with me and my bf!wherever we go. i ve tried it before but my bro cant go to the movies and be still he is hyperactive&cant chill. &i feel so left out b/c my bro always sends me to the back of the care when we all 3 go out and if i ask him to go to the back he gets butthurt. so now my bro iwhen he comes visit always wants to hangout with my bf and me I want to spend time with my bf b/c i berely get to see him and my bro can get annoying sometimes b/c he makes fun of my dad or me. he is always frustrated & arguing

2007-02-11 18:07:05 · 1 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Family

i have just switched to a new cell group,whenever i talk to my cell group people,i will feel anxious and uncomfortable...i tried not to be too anxious..but i just cant control it.....and sometime b4 cg-meeting start,nobody talk to me...

2007-02-11 18:06:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What's the story with my friend's gf?
I've only met her a handful of times, but when we hang out she touches my shoulder, complements my clothes, told me I looked good in a shirt one time, complemented my shoes, would give me random smiles from a distance and one time I noticed when we all did some pregame shots before going out to a club she gave me a much larger shot glass than our two other friends.

I think she's cute as hell, but would never try anything because im not like that. I do remember a year before I was flirting with her and she told me she was interested in someone else (my friend--before I knew they were an item) but that I was fun. She even put her New Year's necklace on me.

What does all this mean? BTW, when we talk, her bf, a good guy, looks at us kind of serious. Her personality speaks of "natural flirt", she is a nice girl and all, but what would you say this is? Does she like me or is this overanalyzing?

2007-02-11 18:03:05 · 10 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Friends

I have always gotten him something for either his birthday or our anniversary.
Even when it is neither of the two occassions sometimes I just do a liitle shopping of the things I think he needs. However he is always complaining either its too expensive or it was not necessary.
What I find disturbing is that he can decide to spend on himself so much and worst still it does not matter how much shopping he does for himself he never gets me anything.
Now our anniversary is around the corner, but we are having marrital issues in that he is never around and I am wondering should I still go out of my way and get him something and in this situation what would it be? Am also afraid he will not be home on our anniverssary.

2007-02-11 18:02:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14, my sis is 21 she lives in her own aopartment. She comes home every 2 weeks to see me and my family. We NEVER get along anymore,. we are always fighting over things like t.v computer, and i always get blamed whenever we start a crazy cat fight where she hits me and i hit her. I always try top be nice, but we never get along and are always fighting. when we were little, she loved me as her only sibling and i luved her, she would play w/me. i try to patch things up, but it never works. what do i do?

2007-02-11 18:00:29 · 7 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Family

well just wanted to know if i am attractive or not cause never been approached by a girl or never approached a girl cause of how i look and fear of getting rejected..................... here is my picture and i know its kind of old


http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f289/quaz786/1474211934_m.jpg

2007-02-11 17:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by ali 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been married for 3 years now, and he's decided that he want's more out of life then a family, it has really been, heart ripping this weekend, cause i love him so much, he say's he's not moving out, and im not cause we have a little girl. i know that he's made some new friends at work, and it's been since meeting them, he been rude, any help to get my husband back

2007-02-11 17:59:13 · 38 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 17:59:11 · 10 answers · asked by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 in Singles & Dating

I AM SUPPOSED TO BE IN A NON-COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP . HOWEVER, WHEN WE SLEEP AT NIGHT HE HOLDS ONTO AND KISSES ME. HE PULLS ME NEXT TO HIM IF I MOVE.
I AM LOOKING FOR THE MEANING BEHIND ALL OF AFFECTION DURING SLLEP

2007-02-11 17:58:06 · 16 answers · asked by MAHLAN 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 17:58:00 · 3 answers · asked by Veronica S 1 in Singles & Dating

WOMEN KNOW THAT MEN ARE DOGS AND STILL WOMEN TRY TO IGNORE IT AND THINK THEIR MAN IS DIFFERENT. YEAH RIGHT. MEN RAPED WOMEN BY FORCE BACK IN THE OLD DAYS AND BY CONSENSUAL PROSTITUTION. LOOK AT THE CALIFORNIA GOLD RUSH AND THE SPANIARD RAPES ON INDIAN WOMEN. our society has become more advanced and men just do it in a more secretive way, leading the girl on that she really is loved but not really.

2007-02-11 17:56:52 · 39 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1 in Singles & Dating

hah okay. my prom isnt until may. and i know its feb right now. see... my boyfriend has an issue with my best friend. ill tell you the whole sotry [ and i am not a **** i swear ] see new years eve my boyfriend decides he wants to go to a concert and i wanted to go to a party my friend was having at her house. so we went our seperate ways.... so that night i had a little too much to drink and i kissed my best friend brandon... [ just a regular smooch on the lips no making out or n e thing more. i swear i remember mostly what went on that night]
heres the thing. not only did my boyfriend not like him already... [ brandon confessed he loved me during the summer] and my best friend marie wanted to go to prom with brandon. well marie is stubborn and HAS to go in the limo with me.. but my boyfriend cant stand brandon and wont accept it. so my friend marie n i got in a fight. [ we're ok now] but i still dno wat to do. i have other friends to go w/ but i still wanna go with ym best friends!!

2007-02-11 17:56:10 · 3 answers · asked by hislittlepumpkin08 1 in Friends

I have just started a new school half way through the simester, the girl I like attends this school. Ive liked her for 2 years, haven't made a move yet. I finally thought I was ready and she was interested a few days before the weekend. I went to talk to her during recess and she acted like she didn't even care that much. Then to make matters worse, she ditched me. (We usually hang out at lunch, with a group of people) She rang over to a group of guys and started talking to them, and like couldn't even care that I was there?

Its Valentines Day on...Wednesday and her birthday is soon too, in the next week or so.

Im completely shattered right now and don't know what to do? Because her friendship means alot to me, I don't want to just chuck her away. Help me please.

2007-02-11 17:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you work 7-3

2007-02-11 17:51:38 · 10 answers · asked by brb/tlb 5 in Singles & Dating

He's really hot

2007-02-11 17:50:07 · 24 answers · asked by JAZMIN G 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have a boyfriend. we have been gong out for 2 weeks last thursday. i am a junior (16) and he is a sophomore (15). i really really like him, the thing is, i am his first girlfriend and he is really stuck with his morals. plus he is like, completely clueless since im his first gf... idk... i hate to admit that i want more out of it, but i do. the thing is... he has 2 single friends, who i hate to say are really cute, they are completely awesome.... and i hate to say it, but i kinda like them. they are also more experianced and would give me more then my bf now... but idk... i like my bf alot, just dont know though.... what should i do?

2007-02-11 17:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by LilDaniGirl8 1 in Singles & Dating

he's 26(uni grad)i'm20(waitin for A' level result). we work in same company. he likes to tease/irritate me at every chance possible. he likes to finish up all my clorets everyday. he treat me very differently from other female colleagues(others), he rarely tease/irritate others. he oso seems to have more thing to talk to others. we always bicker instead of talk. eg. he said 'if u be recipitionist u'll frighten every1 away' then i said 'sry i know u feel sour that u can never be recipitionist for hair growth center' (he's got very thin hair). my colleague tell us pple who bicker always end up together, i quickly say not possible, but he remained silent.he is usually the top sales, but recently he was very bad with his work. and sometime i got the feeling he's looking at me. he's mean to me smtime, i was talking to him, he just like not want to reply, so i say 'can you open ur mouth'. he point to his open mouth. despite this i started to like him, do you think he likes me as well?

2007-02-11 17:48:38 · 8 answers · asked by edis 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 14, my sis is 21, she's a good girl, and claims she never went on a dat or had a b.f. today, her purse was open, and i saw a wrapped condom! Is she having a sex life that my family dosn't know about? P.S she lives in her own apartment! What can i do to figure this out?

2007-02-11 17:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Singles & Dating

It has been a month since my ex-gf and I broke up. We were friends for 1.5years and dated there-after for another 1.5 years doing everything together. The problem was that I won her over from her ex-bf to finally be with her. It was a fight, but I did it, because I knew that I was the better man. The problem was she was still in love with her ex. Her feelings were very mixed, deep down she knew she was never going to get back with her ex and that hurt her. But we were happy together most of the time, things were great. But then she began to get angry about small things I did and it affected me even though I loved her and didnt think anything of it. I carried on spending time with her. Then a month ago she said, I think we should go our separate ways, I didnt believe her saying things to her like your crazy. Well the next night she actually kissed another guy I hadnt even seen, only heard of. It hurts because I loved her so much, but what do I do to move on?

2007-02-11 17:47:34 · 7 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime a guy comes up to me i get shy like this one boy i like came up to me and he ask me to the school dance and all i did waz just stand there what should i do if this happen again

2007-02-11 17:47:19 · 8 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

i invited a friend to go out.she's wasn't sure because she has to go in supermarket.shes gonna pick me up from work.i waited for her.while i was in the bus,i saw her driving so fast.next time i asked her,she made excuses.i think she doesnt believe me anymore.

2007-02-11 17:47:14 · 4 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Friends

wellll it's gonna be valentine's day soon [[duhh]] and i want to give my boyfriend something RLY creative.....you know....not just like the "box of chocolates", etc. etc. he got me a silver chain [[which is GORGEOUS bytheway :)]] and he said it's only ''half the present''. so i made him a candle [[his favorite color && everything]]] but i really think there should be more. any ideas?

2007-02-11 17:47:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so like ppl have ben randomly walking up to me and calling me a trick.
what does that mean?????


helppppppp

2007-02-11 17:46:10 · 19 answers · asked by dfgfbbmnfg! :o 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna get this girl i like some chocolates cause i heard she LOVES it...but shes also concerned about her weight some what....
so wat kind of chocolates are good? cause i was thinking about ferrero rocher

2007-02-11 17:45:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 17:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by marty s 1 in Family

My friend was murdered 16 months ago n London after leaving my house one night. He was beaten up in the park 5 mins from my house. I had to move back home to Australia 8 months after it happened and now feel lost. No-one here ever knew him and all of my friends that went through the grief with me are in the UK along with his family. I feel seperated from them and alittle lost at times. My family and friends here know of my friend who passed but everytime I want to talk about himI feel like I'm depressing them. Even the good stories make me feel as though I am burdening them with my problems. I don't make a habit of bringing him up in my stories anymore because of their reactions. I get so angry because I love to talk about him. He became a big part of my life while I was away and then he was ripped away from me. Now I feel as though I have to hide all of that and become the person I use to be before I met him. He was such a great person and I miss him so much.

2007-02-11 17:44:27 · 8 answers · asked by Arisaig 1 in Friends

I'm already 27 male. And never had A GF.. doesn't seem like i will have any possibility of that until i'm older. So i'm wondering what kind of challenges people in their 40's 50's or 60's may have finding a mate. that younger people don't have?

2007-02-11 17:44:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?

2007-02-11 17:44:03 · 8 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

What do I wear to my boyfriends sister's wedding? Its in Jamaica in July and I have NO IDEA what to wear. Please help?

2007-02-11 17:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by fruitloopsinabox 2 in Weddings

I CAN'T READ MEN...SO HELP ME ....

This happened as he left work tonight. >>>>>>>>>>
He stood at the door and said "Goodbye."
Then he remained standing and just starring at me.
What's up when a man just stares at you before he walks away?
Is he getting his "last look" or what???
Is that behavior of a man who is secretly "in love" with you?

2007-02-11 17:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating