am i being shystie or am i just right?

Question

so my brother(17) doesnt really live at home he comes on passes on weekends and spends the night.so thats the only time i get to spend time w/him.i go to school full time and my bf(21) works full-t ime so i only get to see him for a lil'on Mon. wed. or fridays. when he comes over he takes long naps @ my house & when he wakes up he has "to go" b/c he needs to get his sleep. so its only on weekends when i get to see him.now my dad is always pressuring me to invite my bro over with me and my bf!wherever we go. i ve tried it before but my bro cant go to the movies and be still he is hyperactive&cant chill. &i feel so left out b/c my bro always sends me to the back of the care when we all 3 go out and if i ask him to go to the back he gets butthurt. so now my bro iwhen he comes visit always wants to hangout with my bf and me I want to spend time with my bf b/c i berely get to see him and my bro can get annoying sometimes b/c he makes fun of my dad or me. he is always frustrated & arguing

so am i being selfish ? b/c i want to hang out more with my bf alone than with my bro?...

my dad only wants me to bring my bro along because he doesnt want to deal with my bro complaining about how bored he is... and he just doesnt want to deal with him at all.. he basically wants me to "entertain' him ... and make him feel happy but my bro is never happy

Answer 1

It sounds like your brother has behavior problem. Maybe that's why your father wants you around him more. But, it's natural for you to want to be with your boyfriend, to go to the movies and hang around the house. I would ask your father or mother why they want you to have your brother around so much. Can you be gettting into the trouble with your boyfriend, or can they have a reason why they act like they do? See how your father answers the question.