What's the story with my friend's gf?

Question

What's the story with my friend's gf?
I've only met her a handful of times, but when we hang out she touches my shoulder, complements my clothes, told me I looked good in a shirt one time, complemented my shoes, would give me random smiles from a distance and one time I noticed when we all did some pregame shots before going out to a club she gave me a much larger shot glass than our two other friends.

I think she's cute as hell, but would never try anything because im not like that. I do remember a year before I was flirting with her and she told me she was interested in someone else (my friend--before I knew they were an item) but that I was fun. She even put her New Year's necklace on me.

What does all this mean? BTW, when we talk, her bf, a good guy, looks at us kind of serious. Her personality speaks of "natural flirt", she is a nice girl and all, but what would you say this is? Does she like me or is this overanalyzing?

Answer 1

personally being a girl myself, i would think that she is absolutely flirting w/ you! i would confront my friend, but make sure you ease it into the conversation, he might over react. or tell her that you feel she is flirting w/ you and you don't really like it cuz she is dating your friend. OR what i would do (this is just me) depending on how you are...when your out w/ a bunch of friends and you she does something that you think is flirting w/ you just say "would you just stop flirting already, i mean come on your dating (your friends name)!" but make sure you say it in a joking manner, so that she knows you know and that you really don't like it and your not afraid to let everyone else know too! and so that everyone else thinks your just being a smarty pants! this way here you kill two birds w/ one stone. i hope this helps you! Good Luck!

Trouble

Answer 2

This is hard it depends how much she really likes her bf...if she doesn't do the same sorta stuff with him then she likes you but doesn't want to hurt her bf's feelings but if she does the same stuff with him then she's just a 'natural flirt' like you said. You've done the right thing by not doing nething with her so until you get a full answer of whether she likes you or not just keep doing what your doing

Answer 3

I would steer clear of any friends current or ex gf/bf. she is flirting, it could be she just want to make her current bf jealous. that could damage your friendship with him, if she were to become your gf would u trust her around your friends? i think not. this game can be hurtful and if you lay down with dogs you get up with fleas. never betray a friend! good luck , kindly tell her your not interested and her behavior makes you uncomfortable.

Answer 4

Are you really close with her boyfriend? She may be trying to get the approval of all her bf's buddies if she's really into him. But if she's super touchy-feely with you, it's more likely that she's attracted to you

Answer 5

I think she does like you because a girl wouldn't admit to a guy that they like him. I mean, that's like against the girl rule. You should be the one to tell her that you like her.

Answer 6

She's clearly flirting. Ignore her and don't play into her game. Your friend will see it's not you.

Answer 7

itry007. Good advice.

Answer 8

be true to your friend---remember how would you feel if he did that to you? she sounds kinda sluty

Answer 9

She sounds like a ho'.

Answer 10

stay away from her she's trouble.