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I AM SUPPOSED TO BE IN A NON-COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP . HOWEVER, WHEN WE SLEEP AT NIGHT HE HOLDS ONTO AND KISSES ME. HE PULLS ME NEXT TO HIM IF I MOVE.
I AM LOOKING FOR THE MEANING BEHIND ALL OF AFFECTION DURING SLLEP

2007-02-11 17:58:06 · 16 answers · asked by MAHLAN 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

means you need to turn the thermostat up.

2007-02-11 18:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Non-committed relationship? Sounds like maybe he feels like he's in a committed relationship of some sort. For men, affection is deep and means something-but it dosen't mean "non-committed".
Then again you don't mention how he behaves outside of the bed at night or how YOU FEEL about this. You may be security for him at night. I know that holding someone ALL night can be addicting (personal experience) and unless I was in it for the long run, I wouldn't let it continue. (BTW:I personally love it!)
Are you not able to talk to him about this? Have you tried? That's really the ONLY way you will KNOW the meaning behind this. And the fact that you are even allowing it and/or interested in the "meaning behind" it may mean that YOU are in more than a non-committed relationship! Just be HONEST!

2007-02-11 18:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by t_cutie88 1 · 1 0

He's a snuggler. It doesn't necessarily have any meaning. Men do a lot of things because they like to. There's usually not much being hinted at or symbolized. I can't speak for every guy, but I think we're pretty straight forward in general.

2007-02-11 18:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1 0

This is a sign of affection and although you or he may think you are in a non committed relationship this body language is a sign that he is comfortable with you and in my opinion wants you to always be with him or near him.
Most people do things with their subconsience when they sleep but I can almost bet he is aware of what he is doing while sleeping. Good luck hope this helps :)

2007-02-11 18:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

some Guys are naturally atrracted to girls during sleep, usuley if they have a horney dream or something. Like Sometimes I wake up with a pillow in my arms, I was just looking for somthing to hold onto. Im sure its something like that

2007-02-11 18:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by azº 4 · 0 0

hahaha do you have sex or just sleep in the same bed? If you aren't interested in this then ask him to stop and if he doesn't find a new place to sleep or ask him to sleep on the floor. If you don't mind but are just confused by it, it doesnt carry any greater meaning. He just likes to cuddle.

2007-02-11 18:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There are guys out there who just like to cuddle. I do it with my friends who are girls, and its cool, because we both know where we are and what we are doing. If you really care about an answer to this question, its not us who you should be asking. Talk to the guy and let him know how important this is to you. There will be two possible results in this. Either you get your answer, or he avoids your question and lies, in which case you should probably not be involved with him.

2007-02-11 18:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It means he somehow does not overheat or become uncomfortable like many people after a little while of doing that.

2007-02-11 18:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0 0

means he is a heavy sleeper, and likes to rest his arms on you like a pillow, what do you think it means?, why would you even be sleeping with someone when you are not committed to them, such as married?, oh, we left that little tidbit out.

2007-02-11 18:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 1 0

sounds like you have found yourself a needy man! Be careful that he doesnt turn into a stalker!

2007-02-11 18:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are viewing his true feelings (subconcious emotion). If he does this you know the guy really loves you. I know this is a short answer, but it is true. How about a best answer?

2007-02-11 18:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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