i'm 14, my sis is 21, she's a good girl, and claims she never went on a dat or had a b.f. today, her purse was open, and i saw a wrapped condom! Is she having a sex life that my family dosn't know about? P.S she lives in her own apartment! What can i do to figure this out?
2007-02-11 17:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you care? She could legally have sex when she was 18. What does it matter if she has "wrapped condoms" in her purse. You are a horrible sister for snooping through her things like that. She doesn't live in the same hous as you with your parents anymore. She's grown up. Grown ups have boyfriends. They have sex. And they dont' have to tell their parents or their little sisters about it.
2007-02-11 17:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, alot of guys carry condoms around all the time in the case that something may happen. They dont want to have to decide to either go unwrapped or try and make it to the store before the mood is lost. Im sure its perfectly logical for women to do this also... Many guys that have them are even virgins just prepared for if something came along, im sure that could be the case for her also.
But if you really want to know, you just need to tell her what you saw. And down right ask her whats going on.
2007-02-12 01:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by azº 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about finding a way to figure out other people's private lives. Worry about finding a way to mind your own business.
Your sister is over 18 and living in her own home. She can do what she likes.
2007-02-12 02:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your concern. She may be having sex or she may be a virgin. This is not your concern. She lives in her own apartment and even if she lived at home this would not be your concern. What can you do to figure it out?
Realize that there is not anything for you to figure to out.
2007-02-12 02:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she's 21 so you can't expect her to do anything THAT stupid...but depending on how close you are to your sister, i say you should talk to HER. if she tells you stuff, she'd tell you about "the guy" [[if there is one.]]. otherwise, it'll come out into the open one of these days....being 14....just like i am...i dont think there's much else you can do about it.
2007-02-12 01:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she is having a sex life, no one can ever find out. Just chill out she is grown up and knows whats good for her. If you try to find the truth, you might end up hurting your relationship with her.
2007-02-12 01:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sami 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could mind your own business. That is always a popular option for someone in your position.
2007-02-12 01:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might've just gotten one for free and stuck it in her purse. They get handed out at concerts all the time.
What you should do is ask her. Don't be sneaky. If you're snooping around her things, that's the surest way to get off of her good list this year.
Ask her.
2007-02-12 01:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
open or closed you should not be looking in your sisters purse.
What she has in there is her business.
She is 21 and aloud to do what ever she wants and has no one to answer to but herself.
Weather she is having sex or not is her business and not yours or your parents.
2007-02-12 01:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you keep out of it. She's 21. She's an adult. She is under no obligation to inform you or your parents of her escapades. This is really none of your business.
2007-02-12 01:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by sueflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋