He's really hot
2007-02-11 17:50:07 · 24 answers · asked by JAZMIN G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can not say if there is a right or wrong..... but, I will say this, and it is ONLY what I feel..... so here goes.... Sex between 2 ppl these days calls for a LOT of trust !!!!!!! and it takes time to get to know a person well enough to trust them with your life..... and that is all I have to say on the subject !!!!! God bless
2007-02-11 17:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not wrong but having sex at that stage takes an extra level of maturity. You just have to know what you want.
You could see it this way; if he just wants you just for sex then he will probably disappear soon after the act. This could work in your favour because you won't be wasting your time trying to establish if he is committed or not and you have had some good sex in the interim.
2007-02-12 02:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by BravoWon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What has "hot' to do with it? Sex is not a hobby or pass time. If you are a person that only in concerned about the good feeling right now and not worried about the long term affects... ie being a $lut that every man will do but none would want to have long term. Sure go ahead, just make sure you know how to use your birth control and use more than one kind.
2007-02-12 01:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had sex with a girl I had known for about 25 minutes. It was protected sex which is the most important thing. I was fun, mutual and would amount to nothing. We ended up seeing each other around and became good friends afterwards. We always laugh about it. So the criterior is safe, fun, mutual and that you both feel the same about what happens afterwards. If he wants it to happen once but you want a relationship, then this sex will end up hurting you emotionally.
2007-02-12 01:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by pablomofo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
welll do u love him or like him alots ??? cuz dont make urself look like a toy bc when people know about it they dont have the right respect for u ...cuz when u keep this up when u fall in love with him do think he will have the same feeling as u cuz if he dont than just let go bc one day when u have feeling for u and pretend if he doesnt how would u feel??cuz u gonna end up hurting urself..bc u're gonna feel like he is using u for sex only cuz sometime u need to play hard on guy so they wont think ure easy bc some guy out there they dont like easy gurl
2007-02-12 02:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by pheng l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I consider myself mature and an adult of course, I'm 25. and yeah.. I think it's not wrong. There's no such a thing as RIGHT or WRONG. Mature people take it easy.. as long as you don't bang somebody else's husband and DO always have safe sex. Nothing wrong with that.
2007-02-12 02:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex, as always, is a personal choice. Are you ready for the consequences of having a sexual relationship? (in general and specifically with him) If you choose to have sex with him, do use a condom for safety and be on a hormonal birth control for added protection.
In my wild years...well...lets just say I didn't even remotely wait that long.
2007-02-12 01:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll be honest....i actually knew my husband for about a month before we had sex. We weren;t even dating. I gave him a ride home from work one night and it happened then. 2 weeks later i got prego and then a year later we got married.
All I can tell you is if you decide to then use protection. If you really want to that badly then go for it i guess. it's really up to your morals dear.
2007-02-12 02:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know if it was wrong on not...
Its done now, so there is nothing you can really do about it. Other than think things through better in the future....
2007-02-12 01:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's already a long time for some people. some have sex with a person they just met at the bar as soon as they leave the bar.
2007-02-12 02:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋